I'm single, have enough on my plate, I'm not chasing after anything serious per say or relationship, but I'm also fully open for the right person when it happens, truth is.. I have no aversion to something committed, I'd welcome it.. but of course that would mean two connect fully and want all the same stuff from life, at this age now, I know what I like and want in life and don't want.. although, I'm just not even interested in dating right now.. for now, seeking a good mix of friendly vibes & affection.. looking for 'the one right now' and it be great if she was someone with these preferences in life of being a childfree, petfree, own independent person

I'm 36 y/o, 6ft, Brown man, attractive, the average dadbod, stubble to shaved-ish head with a short-medium beard, am childfree & petfree, well groomed, big on hygiene, selfcare, tattooed, professional with remote/wfh job in niche market and overall a chill, levelheaded, mature, balanced individual that's not interested in games/fakeness/deception and am interested in a straightforward real woman who's a good fit that's not worried about emotions or feelings in something like this because she understands it adds to make it better; I think emotional maturity and life experience are attractive

I'm happy to swap pic if there's interest after you introduce yourself, we can have a lowkey coffee-walk to see if there's enough mutual interest to pursue anything further.. I'm not into online stuff and want someone in metro Vancouver to connect with. I don't use any swipey apps nowadays and I am terrible at forever messaging chat not having ever met, I live in the real world, so the online social life isn't my thing plus I keep expectations low given Reddit chats I've gotten

I'm fully unattached, ie. not dating anyone or looking really, I want consistent ongoing sitch, fun vibes, chill good thing. I'm not looking to go out and do stuff; wanting to stay in to enjoy eachother, friendly-lovers, kept private indoors is fine, overall I'm not looking for a pseudo dating relationship but do want a good connection. I prefer a longer term situation whether we call it being casual, having fun, lovers, FWB etc

I'm not in a rush so want to enjoy a fun connection and my life until that 'right match' and something serious emerges

For something meaningful, I'm an atheist, mostly apolitical, childfree and petfree as I want to live no obligation lifestyle freely. I'm not really into the super pronoun using acronym heavy overly politically correct personalities, but a real and not hateful person is who I vibe with.. ie. who doesn't need to over correct, is somebody who doesn't actually actively have a problem with common phrases that were ok before but now are seen as offensive, someone good natured yet not uptight about perception but cares whats in your heart

For now, and the whole reason I'm on Reddit anonymously,

Seeking someone to unwind with, unplug from all the work stuff, de-stress, disconnect etc to just indulge in eachother, I enjoy D/s core dynamic in bed, I am internally Hedonistic which leads into some outward Sadistic play, I mostly have Daddy energy that overrides all of it, re: more in other posts but all that aside individual dynamic is about two energies

& Not to make my kinks the entirety of my identity, I believe kinky sex, Dom/sub is a natural inclination, in modern time we use labels, define everything. I enjoy variances, as long as vibes sync, I tend to click best with naturally submissive leaning in bed, but not a passive personality. Any roles and labels aside, we need to click first. Everything boils down to having mutual attraction w/ some sort of energy overall. I only enjoy D/s stemming from natural power exchanges not roleplay playacting & not anything overly performative. I want someone who's genuinely internally driven/likes this

Here I am, putting my authentic self out in the internet void, looking for someone local that resonated with my post(s).. to meet in real life to see if there's a spark, an energy or not

All I ask is, if you're going to message that your intent is to actually meet, you're not bored looking for online attention