Hello to those reading, and welcome to what's going to be a very expressive and quality read as I introduce myself and what I am looking for! I hope you brought your attention span, because you'll need it. I dont do low effort or low quality, so those who can't make it through all this aren't what I'm looking for anyway.

You may call me Seth, for now, and as a well established; extensively experienced; considerably well hung; athletic/fit/HWP/in shape (whatever we're calling it these days) tall dark and handsome; Dominant sensualist? I come highly recommended by my current local kink community of Denver Colorado for my reputation as a safe and sane easily vetted passionate individual who actually knows how to conduct themselves in a healthy and affirming manner when in a power exchange dynamic with someone(s).

All this to say that, presently, I dont lack for fulfilling options and experiences and I am currently indulging an a rewarding dynamic with an ENM submissive that I've had the pleasure to guide amd teach and enjoy regularly over the last 2 years.

But sometimes good things come to an end. Life takes us in different directions and things evolve. Fate pulls strings and suddenly the horizon isn't the same. And in 2025, I am going to meet that horizon and relocate from Denver Colorado to somewhere near Philadelphia Pennsylvania. Which puts me in close proximity to states like NY and NJ and several others.

In doing so, I will have to leave the submissive partner I have known the deepest and most intimately of late as well as the kink community that I have enjoyed being a mentor and instructor in, and start all over again in a new place. New kink community. And there isn't even mountains to climb to over there to help keep my physical physique!

Humor aside, though, I am excited for the change. I am excited to be buying a house, a home, something that is mine and turning it into a wonderful safe space for me and mine and perhaps a long term submissive should she choose to share space with me occasionally or over the long term. There will be plenty of rooms and a play space.

So now that we know why my two listed cities are nearly on opposite ends of the US, let's talk a bit about me

About me:

On top of being all those things I listed above, I am also a human being and not a Dominant kink dispenser nor am I looking for a submissive who is just a kink dispenser (shocking given the usual male crowd, I know!). And as such, I am also highly empathetic. Have a deep well of understanding and patience and love to share with someone. Intelligent and have a degree in pharmacology that I put to use working remotely from home as a pharmacy professional.

I am shamelessly nerdy and love board games and gaming and anime and building Gunpla, but will also rock climb and hike and spend time in nature.

I am 5'10" with dark short hair and hazel eyes. A sexy voice. And skilled hands that love to touch with intent and purpose, considering that physical touch is one of my love languages. I have a tattoo of the Triforce from Zelda on my left strong and broad shoulder (...all that rock climbing, you know?) and no piercings or anything. My upper body is handsomely freckled enough without adding piercings to the mix!

Also it should be known that I am uncut. Which is a shallow deal breaker for some of you, but a preference none the less. You'd think, at 7.5 inches of girthy thickness with that extra layer to add less friction and additional heft/weight, that we wouldn't care about such things anymore these days but, this is one of those things I have to mention so no one wastes time. I respect that preference despite not understanding it.

It should also be known I am Neurodivergent. Atypical, as the label goes. Yes, I AM neuroatypical and I don't WANT to be typical. It's bad enough that I can't wrap my head around the actions of most straight cis men around here, let alone want to join them in their toxic masculinity that's just disguised as "kink" and "BDSM". So while my vivid and intelligent mind diverges from usual thought process, you wont find anything toxic or unhealthy here. I deal only in positive energy and healthy dynamics be them sexually kinky or platonic or otherwise.

About my relationship(s):

I already mentioned the play partner I am currently responsible for the surrender and submission of. They are married to someone else who is highly knowledgeable of me because the three of us get along extraordinarily well and have enjoyed time together over the years I have known them both. We will likely keep in touch as platonic friends long after I have moved away and my current sub isn't at all possessive or concerns herself with my having other partners. So they encourage my starting my search for someone now.

I ALSO have a queer, asexual, wonderfully supportive nesting partner who shares transparency and effective communication with me and supports my search for continuing my role within the kink community when we arrive in PA together. When I say queer...I mean they are SO lovingly queer that I am almost not their type, because I have guy bits... and asexual in the sense that we do NOT share a sexual relationship together or have any kind of established powers exchange. They are my person, and I am thiers and we just...get...each other.

When buying our house, we will be getting separate rooms for one another, as well as a guest room for guests or a submissive of mine should she need to use it, on top of a dedicated play room / dungeon space. This should help to demonstrate just how open and prepared for this we are.

Polyamory and Ethical Non Monogamy are important lifestyles to me. And please note there are important distinctions. I AM looking for a long term power exchange relationship with an equally high quality submissive woman who can match my levels of effort and passion and affection. Being ENM does not mean I am just here to collect a harem and have meaningless sex. I would, in fact, be quite happy and fulfilled if I could find one solid submissive to have an exclusive kink relationship with if that would make them more comfortable. This does not exclude me from being someone's "Forever Dom" , but it does exclude me from being someone's Husband Dom.

What I am NOT here for is random hookups that lead to unfulfilling sex, or to have babies with anyone (I will likely be sterilized before I arrive in PA anyway).

You would have a special place in my heart, my life, and always my home. In and out of the bedroom.

What I am looking for:

I will reiterate - I am looking for a female bodied (your gender preference and orientation does NOT matter to me and I support androgeny and queerness etc) submissive between the ages of adulthood and 50 ish years old (older women deserve love too, everyone!).

One who is any height and HWP, which to me runs the spectrum of equally fit as I am, to curvy but still healthy. I need someone who takes care of themselves and knows how important their health and lifestyle is. My nesting partner is what is often referred to as BBW and I have unlimited love for them, but when it comes to my submissive? I need to see that discipline and effort and care of oneself through your body and appearance. Otherwise how can I trust the care of my own pleasure and needs to be handled with appropriate discipline?

Any skin color and tone. Tattooed and/or pierced is definitely my style but I dont care if you have a flawless unmarked body or are covered in sleeves and tats all over. Your aesthetic doesn't matter. Just your personality.

Any experience level. I have co owned my owm dungeon before and easily slip into the role of Mentor, Guide, Teacher, Trainer. I dont mind being your first and opening doors to amazing experiences you've only read about in smut, nor do I mind if you have many years of experience in a high protocol M/s dynamic. What matters is our chemistry and body language and magnetism. I will mold you and guide you and show you everything that pleases me as we dive into this together.

Preferably living in or near the Philadelphia area of PA and all surrounding states within a few hours drive away.

Who accepts the unique and transparent asexual non kinky relationship I am already in.

In closing? I will be leaving behind my entire kink life in Denver and re establishing myself over in PA and likely the kink communities of NY and such given my experience levels. And all I want is someone to care about deeply and perhaps even romantically if you have the capacity for it, who I can empty the thoughts and clear the stress of through regular sessions and a healthy power exchange dynamic. Someone who's surrender and trust I can earn. Who's reset button I can hit when they need manhandled or bruised or taken to events or held and cared for and Dominated in ways that will turn them into a puddle.

If someone is over there and can wait for my arrival in mid - late 2025 and wants to take this kinky journey with someone who exemplifies healthy masculinity and erotic sensual Dominance? Build a deeply rewarding life of trust and travel and kinky excitement? I am on my way, and I can't wait to hear from you. <3