Well, the weather is getting colder, why not warm up with some spicy banter and steaming buns?
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I know you have a smart mouth that gets you in trouble, one that has others calling you āa bit much.ā You want to submit but you find yourself testing everyone that tries. More likely to stick out your tongue and flip a Dom off than be obedient. Until they make you subby. Until they push your buttons that slowly turns your brains to mush. You wonāt make it easy. Youāll still resist even as you feel your thoughts getting subbier and subbier. Still trying to sass with your upper lips as your lower lips drool down your thighs.
How will you get there?
Well by the first sentence spankings are obviously in order. Some good old fashioned percussive maintenance works as an attitude adjustment. Crops, Paddles, Rulers, Hands, all work nicely, if they are used right. If they are used too often then they lose their effectiveness, particularly when a Brat expects them. Add in some humiliation to the spankings. Make a Brat walk around with her pants around her ankles, red butt on display for all to see. Have her stand in a corner, holding a piece of paper to the wall with her nose. If she drops it the timer starts over, and then spank her when she least expects it to make her jump and drop it.
Other punishments are needed as well.
Writing lines, while boring, can be effective at reenforcing an idea in a Bratās mind. Especially when a Brat learns that her ācuteā little typos and resistance only means she has to start all over again.
Use a Bratās body as the piece of paper. Write all over her everything her body can be used for, then take her out in public with the writing under her clothes.
Orgasms are a privilege, not a right, same as clothes and other things. They can be given and taken away as needed based on behavior.
A Brat needs exercise, so putting her on a leash and taking her for a walk should be a regular occurrence. If more strenuous exercise is needed, then there are plenty of evil ways to make her work up a sweat as punishment.
However, it is not just punishment that a Brat needs, but praise as well.
After a scene be sure to comfort the Brat, tell her how proud I am of her and how brave she was. If she Drops make sure to support her how she needs it. Hold her, praise her, help her deal with the hormones that are suddenly being dumped from her system. Even if she has never Dropped before always do the above anyway.
Make sure to praise her outside of kink as well. It is not only sexual acts that deserve praise. So, when she does something that is praiseworthy make sure to reinforce it.
Cuddle the Brat without it being expected to be sexual. Share your interests with each other. Connect as people not just as roles.
Well with the long-winded part out of the way Iāll keep this about me short. I am a current University student that is working on a pair of bachelor's degrees with the potential to continue on to a masterās program. Class and working at the University keeps me busy. Physically I am 6ft tall, white, with Brown/Blonde hair that is partway down my back, with a scruffy beard to match. I unfortunately have a bit of a spare tire but exercise daily to attempt to firm it up. In my free time I am usually found reading or gaming.
As for what I am looking for, besides obviously a Brat. Someone who is preferably single, Iāll talk to ENM people but wonāt likely get into a dynamic with one, and cheaters do not apply. I would prefer to have the chance to meet IRL rather than being a solely online dynamic however I sadly cannot host. Given the relative scarcity of Brats I will talk to just about anyone from anywhere. Preferably around my age and no younger than 20/21, but I seem to attract those older than me and will happily talk with them.
Feel free to ask any questions you may have, or stalk my profile that has more information. Hope we can talk soon.
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