Hi! I’m Asian, 24 from Canada. I am average height and weight. I’m a student with immense aspirations which keeps me busy, but I am looking for a dom for a monogamous relationship.

First, I’m looking for the potential to build a real relationship. I love putting effort into everything I do and equally into the person I want to be with. I like texting throughout the day, whether it’s messaging about random thoughts, or sending pictures of things I’m doing. I value someone who is receptive to regular communication and small exchanges because this is a reflection of the consistency and connection in a relationship that I look for. Regular voice calls and video chats are something I would eventually want.

In terms of dynamics, I like the idea of accountability. I have a lot of goals that I want to pursue, like going to the gym or reading more, and I’m looking for someone to hold me to them. It’s not about micromanagement. For me it’s about guidance, and the desire for security, stability, and support in my ambitions. Being rewarded with praise/orgasms is definitely a huge motivator for me.

I generally have quite a high sex drive, I like primal/rough encounters, and being wanted at any moment. But at the same time, vanilla sex with a hint of domination is great! I have some experience in kink but consider myself very sexually adventurous so I can entertain different ideas. I’ve tried restraints and bondage but some things I’ve always wanted to try have been CNC (chased around the woods, being followed home, roleplaying getting my drink spiked), and some TPE aspects like wardrobe control. I’m also quite greedy, I think it would be fun being passed around in a gang bang. We can discuss more if you’re interested.

So in conclusion, I’m looking for someone who is first and foremost serious about building a monogamous relationship, as I believe total submission is something that is earned through trust. Preferably I am looking for a white male, 25-35 (that’s just my type, no hard feelings), located in North America. Distance on the continent is not too much of an issue for me as long as there’s potential to meet up. I am willing to exchange pictures if I think we have potential to pursue something. Thanks for reading!