Hello,

I'm hoping that with some creativity and luck I can record what I'm looking for in a way that earns me the attention I'm looking for.

About me: I am a 38 cis male, 6'4", blue eyes, brown hair, glasses (usually). In #California #NorCal.

I basically won the genetic lottery for privelage and regularly put into positions of power in my career and personal groups. I have an important and fulfilling career and personal life but something is still missing and I want to find a loving woman to relinquish the power and privilege to and be vulnerable with. I make almost all the decisions and hold 90% of the responsibility in day to day life, and have an appreciation for opposites of the norm. Role reversal, gender swap, etc. Power exchange is very interesting to me. I like to see things from all sides, and an a switch by nature, what can I say? 🙃 I am interested in a real connection and building something long term. If you're just here for the kink, it's not for me, I need connection.

I am poly, married (ENM my wife is very supportive), and we make time for each other's partners, prefer KTP.

I enjoy reading and getting more into writing things other than marketing copy. I love games of most sorts, recently board games but historically TTRPG's like D&d, and I love doing outdoor sports and activities when I'm able to get time. I enjoy cooking, baking, crafting, art, TV, musicals, and movies. Have a soft spot for animals and have two cats (black and grey, I just need a white one to complete the set!). I like to play sports, not so much watch them, but I do love cheering and making myelf a yelling idiot for the team I pick for the day. I think it's a carryover from when I used to watch NFL religiously. I just get excited to see big plays regardless of the sport. 😊

I like puns and making people laugh, and I will do almost anything to put a smile on the faces of the people I care about.

I don't have much experience but am well informed and hoping to discover new posts of myself in this journey. I want to experience emotions and states of being the same way people go on vacation to a new place.

I am into anal play, pegging, edging, public play, voyeurism, bondage, impact, breath, denial, orgasm control, and open to fulfilling new kinks that I may not be aware of yet. Interested in chastity but a bit intimidated, hoping I can find someone to help me feel more comfortable and help lead me through the more intimidating parts of what I have interests in.

No cnc, blood, scat, knife play, sissification or full feminization (makeup is okay and I'm told I'm very pretty 😘). I do have lovense toys and would be thrilled to have a dynamic where you have control. 🫠

I am happy to share a photo and additional details after we chat and seem to connect a bit. I would appreciate the same back as we determine if we are a fit. Personality and intelligence goes a long way with me. Bonus if you can keep me on my toes, I'm very quick witted and you should be prepared for throwaway lines that make you laugh, and more that make you roll your eyes and smile bc it's dumb but still clever.

If you like what you have read so far, and want to see if we click, please message me, of morning else we can make each other's day a little brighter with a pleasant hello. 😊