Hello my fellow kinky redditors, I am asking for your careful consideration to join me in my daydream while the work day winds down.

I’m 24 m dom. I grew up in Atlanta, live in Georgia, and am open to anyone from the USA or Europe (but prefer USA due to time zone) with the caveat that I hope if I do meet the proverbial “one” we can agree to relocate somewhere within the South. (I’m sorry but I’ve lived in the North the past 6 years and I can’t stand another day where the temperature goes below 0 degrees Fahrenheit). I want to be able to feel my fingers when i hold your hand🤷🏻‍♂️ sue me🤷🏻‍♂️

So, why me out of everyone else? Well, honestly can’t tell you that one. I’m sure there’s a lot of lovely people out here all vying for your attention and some may be better suited for you, and that’s awesome. I’m not here to sell you on me, I’m here to simply offer a hand to the potential littles who are supposed to be with someone like me.

Aside from an addiction to Diet Coke, I guess there’s a good amount you should know about me before we venture into the kink land. I have ADHD. If you don’t know what ADHD is, basically my brain doesn’t produce enough chemicals of some sort so, instead of operating like a “normal” human, I have a lot of moments where I’ll easily forget something or get distracted. It’s also the reason for my addiction to Diet Coke (i need that little boost of caffeine to balance out my brain [or at least, that’s what my therapist tells me]).

Because of my adhd, I have a lot of interests. I like reading (mainly non fiction but I’m a Flannery O’Connor fan boy because she’s the best Georgia author ever). I write (about what, nobody knows but it’s always interesting). I like sports (mainly football and basketball but I also like watching some hockey every now and then). I also am kind of a geek and have bought a few comic books, love marvel movies and star wars, my first love (and tbh, Slave Leiah? Kinda overrated, give me Padme any day). I also love philosophy and complex moral issues (trolly car problem is the most interesting conundrum ever). Oh, I also play video games, mainly Call of Duty for 2-5 months every year because they have a lot of completions challenges, which basically I just get little dopamine hits from my ADHD when I complete things so, yeah.

Alright, enough about vanilla me.

Kink wise me:

I’m a softer dom but also have a flair of something darker within the softer dom in me. It’s not sadistic, but the flair is more, you know, strict, get what it wants type flair.

I think it’s super important to have some sort of relationship before a dynamic (even if it’s just a friendship) because the basis of all submission is trust, so how can you trust someone you don’t know?? So please, give me some interesting facts about you, i want to get to know you literally before i get to know you biblically (inset snare drum).

Lastly, in terms of kinks, genuinely I don’t have a comprehensive list because I find it changing often and growing. I know hard limits for me are anything illegal and anything scat. Otherwise, I’ve probably tried it and liked it or have interest in it.

If this mess of an ad has made you interested in me, I think you better call a doctor orrr just chat me with more than just a hi or hello. Tell me about you and also tell me your favorite animal if you read all the way down here.

Thank you for your service and I hope you have a great rest of your day/night.

P.S. I think it’s probably wise to save us some time in talking. I’ve realized it might be better to give a few requirements. 1. I don’t care if you’ve got a few extra pounds on you ( I do too) but I just know I’m not attracted to people who are larger. I don’t say that to shame anyone, I just want us both to be able to find the right person we are looking for. 2. Please, if you are going to message me, be willing to engage in conversation. I want to get to know you, especially more than the surface level things. I want to know who you are and what you care about.