Where do I begin?

I guess let’s start with some basics. I’m 5’5, shoulder length black hair, thicker but on a weight loss journey, brown eyes, and a hell of a good smile. Or so I’ve been told. My job is boring. I work in hospitality and there’s no moving up for me so I’m kinda stuck at this point which sucks but it is what it is. I do have an associates degree but that’s as far as I wanted to go with schooling. I promise I’m well educated tho according to friends and family. And if there’s something I’m not educated on, I’m more than willing to be open minded about learning about the subject at hand. Speaking of open mindedness, that’s what I like to describe myself as: open minded. I like to see things from others points of views before making my own decision about something. I’m not one to judge, in fact you can ask my best friend, I’m probably the least judgmental person you will ever meet. Everyone has gone through their on shit and handled it in their own ways. There’s no right or wrong to life.

Anyways. Got off on a tangent there, sorry about that.

I’m looking for someone who knows how to communicate and doesn’t stop communicating when life gets hard. In fact when life gets hard is when we should be communicating even more. I’m a big time texter, FaceTime, audio messages etc. I wanna feel like my partner wants to talk to me and me not feel like a burden or like I’m not a priority in their life. I’ve been down that road before and it sucks majorly. My job is easy and so is my life so I have plenty of time to text and video chat throughout the day. The only time you won’t hear from me is if I’m driving or sleeping. And heck when I’m driving I’d love to be on a call with you. Communication is key to any relationship and as one person put it “They see your texts, they see your posts. If they wanted to respond they would”. So that’s how I view communication.

Long winded, I know.

Sexually I’m not hypersexual but I am sexual. Playing on the phone for me is kind of hard as I live with kids (not mine) so maybe teasing through texts? I dunno how to navigate that but hopefully there wouldn’t be much navigating as you’d be close enough for us to have play time or I’d relocate to you and we’d have play time then. I don’t like to disclose my sexual interests over posts like these so once we get to know each other a bit we can discuss our interests together.

Look. I’ve been around the block a time or two when it comes to D/s dynamics. Do not expect me to call you Sir/Daddy right off the bat. Do not expect “inspections” and please don’t try to give me rules within the first thirty mins of talking. All of that comes with time and trust and communication. I promise it’ll come with time. (Red) I’m a slow but fast person if that makes any sense. I’m sure you’ll get a sense of that when talking to me. Because A. I want to meet rather quickly but B. I also like to take things slow when it comes to dynamic wise as I have been burned in the past.

I’m wanting someone who is crazy about me and me about them. I want reciprocal (eventual) love and compassion and communication. I need something tangible too. I need to be able to have that closeness with someone so therefore, long distance for a long period of time would not work for me. I’m somewhat open to it, but would prefer us to be close to each other.

Anyways. I believe that’s a long enough post for now. Please find the color word thats hidden in this post and use it when messaging me, so I know you’ve read this post, otherwise I probably won’t respond to your message. Happy searching :)