I'm not looking for anything serious right now. I've only been single since October 15th. I know that I need more time to recover. I mean, I won't rule anything out in case I if I happen to miraculously meet the right person/people, but that's not my goal right now.

Right now, I just want to try to have fun and try new things.

First: I have a separate post about possible dealbreakers. If you're interested after reading this, be sure to read that before contacting me! I don't want to waste anyone's time.

https://www.reddit.com/u/LordBruticus/s/WkvAcoFZfT

Second: 28 years old is my absolute minimum for a play partner. I can't deal with someone young enough to be my kid. I'd prefer closer to my age than that.

Third: I don't need kink as part of sex, but I really, really love it. I sorta gravitate towards D/s, rather than age play or pet play, but those can be fun too.

I'm a switch. And while I have my kinks, I don't enjoy things if I know my partner is just doing them for my benefit.

As a dom/top, I'm sadistic. I enjoy giving multiple orgasms if possible. I have topped cis women and a trans woman before. I topped a cis man once and didn't care for it...he was very hairy, and it was a turn-off. I would definitely consider play with a CD or femboy. I have participated in MMF and MFF as a top and enjoyed it.

As a sub/bottom, I am service-oriented and moderately masochistic. I enjoy giving massages, manicures and pedicures, and more. (I'm not going to claim to be an expert at these things.) I've never done DDLB/MDLB and I don't know if it would be my thing, but I might consider it. I've only subbed/bottomed to one person, my former owner (a cis-bi woman). I'm open to considering lots of options here as to potential partners.

Here's a link to my Kink List: https://kinkli.st/exlNR

Last thing: if you have zero activity on Reddit and don't tell me anything about yourself, there's a good chance I'm not going to reply. If it's obvious that you didn't read my dealbreakers, I'm probably not going to reply.