Hey there!
As an experienced Dom I understand that every great dynamic starts with a deep connection and trust, and that these elements take time to build. I do not enjoy jumping right into kink as its meaningless without any type of connection for me. If I want a quick fix I can easily load up a video or hit a club up. I'm seeking a companion first and foremost. Someone to live and experience life with. Takes trips, learn new things, fail, and grow together. Plus I'm tired of how almost all ingredients are sold assuming there's more than one person eating and I hate leftovers. Partly why I try to grow all my own veggies. I hate leaving the house alone. I like to have my person beside me for comfort.
In my day to day, I adult very well. Work remotely, pay taxes, and sometimes even make my bed. I'm fairly rooted where I'm at, so an eventual relocation is going to have to be you to me. I don't live in all of the most exciting places, but that's how I like things. If I want the big city vibe I make the trip to a big city, but for the most part I'm content in my little place. Me moving would involve selling a house, canceling my plans for a summer camp spot purchase, figuring out how to move everything inside, cars, a dog... just not something I'm willing to do. My usual "type" tends to not have their life all that together anyways. Women working jobs and not a career, women with roommates, etc. I fall for them and like to help mold them into whatever they aspire to be. I'm very open and flexible for travel within the US, preferably the east coast area as I don't expect you to be packing your bags this weekend. My love language is definitely time together but I understand people have their own lives and social groups.
I like to be in nature and just exist. I don't need to climb the tallest mountain.... hell I'd probably die, my lungs only like 80% work. I like to try new experiences especially in dining. I have made trips to NYC just to try a restaurant before and then spend the rest of the weekend walking up and down the island exploring to see what's changed from when I lived there a decade ago. I love animals and even though my zoo is small and full of old animals make sure to keep my membership to see them. I also volunteer at a local dog rescue. I have no kids and cannot fertilize an egg to make them. I am liberal in my political beliefs. I garden (poorly), cook, do trivia, hunt, camp, binge TV shows, do morning stretches, use Excel spreadsheets to track my bills, and more. In my normal day to day I'm just a considerate and curious guy living a normal life and looking for someone to share it with.
Until it's time to play. I am twisted there. My limits are pretty much age play, blood, piss, scat, and animals.
If you're up for it, let's chat and see if there's a spark.
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