Hello cutie, I'm a 23 year old Dominant Top from the Netherlands looking for a long term relationship with a sub who is into petplay. At first I would like the relationship to be strictly online to see if things click properly, but if they do I would be willing to consider meeting IRL and potentially seeing how far the relationship might go. That said I am open to dating people outside my timezone, but ideally you are close to a European time zone.

What I offer: I am extremely adaptive when it comes to kinks and open to exploring, I also have quite some experience with a wide arrange of dom/sub dynamics such as ageplay, bdsm, and obviously petplay. Overall I consider myself to be a caring and loving and I really enjoy looking after my sub, making them feel comfortable and safe to express themselves and in general being there to support them. I can be a bit more harsh and strict when it comes to playtime and in the bedroom, but overall I am more of a praise and reward over humiliation and punishment kind of guy. Furthermore I am pansexual and mainly look for a click and a good fit in terms of personality above all else. I am a very understanding and patient dom and I have no unrealistic expectations when it comes to balancing the relationship and irl responsibilities. I intend to really form a meaningful bond with you both romantically and sexually.

What I look for: I am looking for a sub who is at least somewhat knowledgeable and ideally experienced with petplay and is familiar with kinks and what they want in a relationship. I do not mind other kinks being involved, but if you are more into a different dynamic like master/slave and would only wanna wear a tail and ears as “petplay” then this is not what I am looking for. I prefer the relationship to have both elements of sfw petplay (headpats, lap cuddles, maybe play) and nsfw (should be pretty straight forward). I am not opposed to needy subs and ones who can be clingy, but I dislike those who can be demanding. Furthermore, while I can handle a brat, I prefer a sub who likes to behave and remember their place. Besides that I am looking for someone who is open-minded and wants to work on creating something special. I hope to find a long-lasting partner who I can grow and learn with. Lastly, understanding, patience, effort and commitment should go both ways. I am not very picky when it comes to looks, but highly prefer someone who shaves and is not too masculine.

Overall, I mainly want a proper lasting relationship with a sub who has realistic goals and expectations. Someone who enjoys having the dynamic being a part of our everyday life while also being interested in getting to know and love each other as a couple.

There might be some things I forgot, but I feel if you made it this far into reading the post we might as well learn the rest via conversation. If you do reach out please send me a message introducing yourself a bit.