Tattoos, rock and roll... and dungeons and dragons. I'm a huge nerd at heart. Looking for someone to hang out with, my standing date, someone to go adventure with, and someone to nap on the couch with. I enjoy romantic dinners just as much as I like checking out hole-in-the-wall dive bars. Live music and beers, hiking, gym partners, or weekend trips to a cabin in the mountains are all things I'd want to experience with you. LTR preferred, ready to find my little one and enjoy life. Please be at least close to DC or Northern Virginia.

I've been in the lifestyle for 13ish years and I know what I want from a partner. Consent is my biggest kink. There is a big difference between being in control and being controlling. It's important to me that any prospective partner is willing to live the livestyle with me 24/7 -- not just in the bedroom, but as the core of our relationship. It's also important to me that a prospective partner is emotionally mature enough to handle being my princess/babygirl. I am 100% willing to learn and grow alongside my partner, so long as they are willing to be my partner.

I am a Daddy: Sometimes gentle, sometimes not. Always in charge. I have high standards for behavior and decorum, both for myself and my partner. Rules and tasks should never be arbitrary; they should be used to build -- build relationships, build confidence, and build each other up. I'll degrade and humiliate, but it will always be done affectionately. You will have no questions about who owns you, whose property you are. And after all is said and done -- after your little body is sore and exhausted, covered in t he trophies you earn -- I'll be your safe harbor. I'll be your protector and provider. I'll be the one in whose arms you find refuge and respite.

If you're still exploring, need guidance, or know exactly what you want, I'd be happy to talk to see if we're a fit. I do have a predilection for moderate brattiness and service-oriented submission. I also lean heavy towards Pleasure Dom/Master in the bedroom. I love hard and play hard, so please be willing to invest emotionally.

Kinks, yucks, wants, and needs all on request. I want to build something real, so let's get coffee first before you ask me to tie you up.

Me:

Long hair
Tattoos
Piercings
Coolest nerd you'll ever meet
5'8", green eyes, dad bod w/ a belly, powerlifter (I bet I can bench press you)

You:

Shorter than 5'8"
Cuddlebug
A little needy (or a lot needy... I need someone messaging me throughout the day)
24-40 (plus or minus a bit)