Been searching for what feels like forever but my patience has yet to run out. I will not stop searching through any and all avenues until my perfect sub is found. It's difficult to trust what reddit throws at you and I have spoke to at least 100 fakes and flakes. Let me be clear this post is not fake nor AI written. I am as I say and I will continue to be myself at all times with no desire to be anything else. If we are not a match then we move on. Life is short and I intend to enjoy it to its fullest. Where is my perfect sub to join me on this journey? Lets see if today is the day she responds....

To keep it short and sweet I am 39 years old as the title says. I have grown to love the bdsm community for what it is. I am successful in life and happy with the direction my life is taking me. The one thing I am missing is a sub companion to enjoy the next 40 years together.

I work constantly and need a sub who can handle my busy schedule and know that it will not change because its the life I have chosen to pursue. I place a high amount of value in obedience and loyalty. The truth that these two can and will not be expected to be there instantly. I firmly believe a bond must be reached before stepping down that path.

I love a sub who see's themselves as nothing but a subject to do as a Dom says. With that said I can't stand subs who try to act like they belong to me instantly. Do not message me acting like we are in a dynamic. I need to know who you are and if you are a good fit for me.

Things I like:

An eagerness to learn.
Loyalty
Politeness
Good Hygiene
Good Communication skills.

Things I don't like:

Overly Bratty
Demands
Blind commitments
Rushing into things.
Abuse of any kind.
Limit pushing.

The list goes on but I'll leave it at that for now. I have many kinks and am open to exploring others, we can discuss further 1 on 1. I value aftercare! If you do not, we may not be the right fit. It’s simple and essential. I'm flexible in a lot of ways but my limits are firm.

I am not looking for games, 1-week online play or anything temporary. If you're a sub looking for a full-time long term online Dom my DM's are open. Don't just say hi, actually tell me more. If you can’t commit to something long term I'm not interested. I respond to every message sent with effort. There are a lot of option here for woman, so good luck with your search either way. I don't judge a book by its cover and I am not opposed to a trans woman if you truly are real.