First things first, this is an edited repost of one I made about two months ago. I met a cool person from the first one, but we learned some stuff and I think it got just uncomfortable enough that we ended things. I'll elaborate on the situation, but I will not discuss the person out of respect for their privacy, so do not ask about that side of things.

Anyway. On the the fun stuff!

I seriously doubt that I'm a hard dom. Completely unopposed to finding out, but staunch degradation doesn't come naturally, I suspect that I'm not into impact play, and I don't have the patience or desire to micromanage. I'm big into personal freedom, and while I've found that I quite like being emotional support and a devoted partner, there's no shot that I'm going to be be consistently into intentional hyper-cluelessness, life-wise. I'm big on growth, figuring things out, and being our own people, so I'm more than down to be patient and work on things, but I won't be into arbitrary stagnation or living solely for one another.

I'm here cause I know I like to play hard, and cause I want more of that level of play. Very into being dominant, breathplay, bondage, pleasure control, light sadism, free use, cnc, being creative with games, and that sort of thing. Not into bodily-waste play, and I doubt that I like impact play. I by no means have tried out everything, but I know that I love to figure things out, and I have an inordinate amount of fun engaging in anything new. I value learning, teaching, fucking around and finding out, and creating a safe environment to learn in, so I think I'd pair best with someone who is into that kind of dynamic, at least initially. There are things I've been interested in trying out, but haven't ever had the opportunity to, and there are other things that I've only ever scratched the surface with, and haven't had enough exposure to.

And while I know I'm looking for a sub, I do know that I like a variety of subtypes, so if you're competitive, totally submissive, meek, mischievous, or anything in between, I'm sure I'd have fun with any dynamic. Probably wouldn't find a bunch of fun in trying to force you into a different role/subtype if that's not something you'd enjoy, but I would be very interested in learning what you're like and how to engage with it best. Also, I doubt I'm much of a brat-tamer, but honestly idfk.

I'm down for a serious or non-serious kind of thing, and if serious, I'd be monogamous and expect the same. I'm not going to pressure into doing anything too much too soon, and would be completely open to discussing things every step of the way. Would love to eventually have someone occasionaly live in my space and to have extended sessions, but I recognize that this might take a while to build to. Also: please please please, let me know what kind of relationship/dynamic/scenario/whatever you're looking for, if you know. The last person I was with was operating under different assumptions and expectations there than I was, and it caused discomfort to the point of ending things.

I have a weird gig-based schedule, and I work a variety of jobs at the moment. Used to be in the tech industry with a 9-to-5 and all that, but I frankly got way too bored. Point being, I have a variety of hobbies and interests, and I have an odd schedule that may or may not allow for an abundance of time to devote to consistently being online or available, but I'll do what I can to foster the kind of thing you'd be most into.

I'd probably lean away from exchanging personal details to start out cause I'm scam-averse, and I have more energy to chat than I do to deal with that kind of crap. That said, I do wanna make sure there's at least a baseline lust, so I'd say that I'm 5'9," white, brown hair brown eyes, ~140, lean, and have an at least moderately attractive floor. Celebraty comps would be people like Joe Keary and Liam Payne. I work on my body, but am not extreme about it, and am generally an active person, I think. I like nerdy stuff, videogames, media, outdoorsy outings, cooking, football, challenge, games, books, etc. and I think that being with someone who doesn't share at least one single interest with me sounds like torture.

If any of this appeals to you, feel free to message!