Hey Reddit!  I’m curious to see what kind of response this will elicit. 33F attracted to younger guys… just looks wise, it’s been more my jam. Although I am stil interested in my age or older, my attraction leans toward a younger atm. I’ve tried my hand at the usual dating apps, putting my age preference to like 22-29 and I’ve had some matches BUT I cannot seem to find what I want. Obviously, I’m not looking to marry or be in a serious relationship with a 20 something haha. So yes I’m open to a casual thing but the problem with younger guys is they expect you to match then come over their house and fck ASAP…like no.

That’s not my vibe. I can get with a FWB situation if there’s an underlying connection. We can go out and have a good time, feel a vibe and go from there.I’m not meeting someone at thier house and they’re defintey not coming to mine, FFS, I don’t know why this is so hard!! I matched with a guy the other day and simply wanted to meet at a happy hour or something. We made plans, I went to the bar and then he’s like “Oh I forgot, just come over” …umm blocked

I have a specific type though. ( look up the ig account eboysheavenn for example. Sorry, it’s cringe af but its the best way to describe it ) the typically good looking, jock, pretty boy thing. But also personality is equally important! I don’t mind location as long as you’re willing to meet sooner than later. I’m not looking for a penpal, ya know. 

Lastly, its certainly not required but I would be excited to find someone younger who can take a sub role. Not anything hardcore or crazy, but I like giving out ‘good boy’ praises once in a while lol.Here’s me…I can certainly verify that I’m real. If any of this resonates with you, feel free to send a photo and lmk if you’ve had an age gap fling/thing before lol. Talk soon.