Hi there! I'm a 23-year-old genderfluid sub looking for a Dom to explore a meaningful and long-term online BDSM dynamic. While I'm relatively new to the lifestyle (mainly through Reddit lurking), I'm excited to connect with someone who can guide me, help me grow, and build a connection that’s both intimate and fulfilling.

About Me:

Identity & Physical Description: I’m genderfluid (AMAB), mostly femme presenting, and physically of average height, skinny, and white. I enjoy keeping fit and healthy.

Personality: I’m polite, thoughtful, and introspective by nature. While I’m shy at first, I love meaningful conversations and am deeply loyal once I trust someone.

Interests Outside of BDSM: I enjoy yoga, reading, and music—activities that help me relax and connect with myself.

What I’m Looking For:

Dynamic: A long-term online D/s relationship with daily communication. While BDSM will be a central part of our connection, I’m hoping for a friendship and emotional bond beyond the kink. I’m open to you seeing others if that’s what works for you!

Dominant Traits: Thoughtful, consistent, patient, and communicative. Someone who can guide a new sub and enjoys nurturing growth within a safe, consensual environment.

Kinks I Enjoy: Humiliation, degradation, name-calling, chastity, denial, gags, bondage, spanking, pet play, anal play, body worship, nipple clips. I’m open to exploring other things as I learn more about myself!

Hard Limits: Fisting, blackmail, drugs, age play, incest, bestiality, necrophilia, exhibitionism, body modification, blood, scat, family, friends, and anything illegal.

Privacy & Communication:

I’m open to sharing an initial photo to help establish trust, but I’m only comfortable with a text-based dynamic after that in order to maintain my privacy. Down the road, I might be open to more if trust is built, but there’s no specific timeframe for that.

What I Offer:

A loyal and eager sub who’s committed to learning and exploring with you.

Honest communication about my needs, boundaries, and desires.

A strong interest in building trust and creating a dynamic that’s fulfilling for both of us.

If you’re a Dom who values consistency, connection, and clear communication, I’d love to hear from you. Let me know a bit about yourself, your experience, and what you’re looking for in a sub. I’m excited to start this journey and explore a world I’ve been curious about for a long time!

Looking forward to hearing from you.