"From the stars we come, to the stars we go, life is but a journey into the unknown." -Moers, The City of Dteaming Books

I'm 31 from Germany. I am in a polyamourus marriage. I am just another guy on the internet, looking for a sub.

If you are still reading, welcome. I'm looking for someone to go on a journey with me. Metaphorically. My #location is where i am from, not where I expect you to be from aswell. With the things I'm looking for I cannot afford to restrict myself to one location so I'm looking worldwide, believing that, if our bond becomes strong enough, we will find a way.

Part 1 The Destination

They say it's about the journey, not the destination. But you still need one, to not wander around aimlessly, even if you might never get there. A unicorn in poly terms is someone joining a couple in a three way relationship. I'm looking for you to become my TPE 24/7 slave unicorn. Not acting online but really living with us. 24/7 for me doesn't mean you can't have a job or see your family anymore. It's just a game we play, consensually. TPE would include you have no limits anymore. Not because i want to chop off parts of your body and eat them, but as a sign of trust. Because you don't need them and have come to trust my judgment more than your own.

Part 2 the Journey

It starts with a DM in answer to this post. Just tell me a bit about yourself and what got your attention. Then we'll smalltalk a bit. From there who knows. We might become pals. Friends. Maybe I'll be your mentor, or maybe you become mine. Maybe play mates. Maybe we'll be lovers. Or maybe we don't. Maybe we just chat and have regular casual sessions. Maybe you are just a travel companion, headed for a different destination but sharing a part of the way. The paths of life often don't meet, sometimes cross, and sometimes run parallel for a bit. This is the truly interesting part in life. This is why I'm posting. Increasing the chance, for an amazing person's path sharing mine for a while. You.

Part 3 Your Travelcompanion

I am 187cm, 90 KG and have on one or the other occasion been described as cute. As a man and a Dom I obviously feel threatened by that word, even though I'm told cute is a good thing. I got blonde, short hair and blue eyes.

I consider myself a person with depth. Both positive and negatively. I don't need to be the loudest guy in the room or assert my dominance over everyone. I'm usually more of a quiet Person, but I wouldn't describe myself as shy. "Calmness is the cradle of power" is a quote you could say fits me quite well. I (and others around me) suspect me being neutrodivergent, it's not confirmed and I don't plan on getting it diagnosed.

I used to be a camera operator, mainly doing TV jobs. Now I am in the military doing camera and cutting work aswell as being a soldier. In never find enough free time to do the stuff I want to, I always seem to have a new project going on in my free time aswell. Stuff that stuck with me is analogue photography, (camera-)drones, pc gaming, mountain sports (especially climbing). All of those are great conversation starters.

As for my kinky side I've been in BDSM for over 10 years. I am switch, heavily leaning Dom. I've had connections in and out of the scene, real life and online. But in the end it never lasted, for one reason or another. Which is really funny (or sad) as my aim was always a LTR with a D/s-Dynamic. I've had the pleasure of getting to know alot of interesting people, learn and play with a wide range of techniques, but there are always new ones to discover and learn and old ones to perfect. I love creativity and surprises. You can expect free use, denial, rules and surprises. There is alot more to say about me, but I prefer for you to find out yourself. I prefer not to talk too much about my kinks, I'm not looking for the temporarily horny to like me for just my kinks, but the constantly for everything.

Part 4 You

I used to consider myself a monogamist and romantic, before I met my wife. She introduced me to polamoury I still am both of those things, to an extent, and also not. But the things I require from a monogamous partner are alot and it's unfair to that one person to fulfill all those needs. So it's OK if you're not an amazing chef, you could still do the dishes though.

You need to be open minded. Sexually and intellectually. You need to be able to hold a conversation. So many women ask that of men and it goes both ways. Nothing turns me off more than one word answers. Except for maybe ghosting. Don't look to get conquered, just sitting there waiting for me to do everything. Instead, let's conquer each other!

For the most part I don't really care about looks or age. The one physical feature that makes or breaks my attraction is your face. I do prefer you to be younger than me just because it enforces the dynamic but it is not a limiting factor. There is no limiting factor here. To me, it depends who you are on the whole, I don't judge you on your one worst criteria that I handpick. I care about honesty, loyalty and communication. I like interesting people, that are different from the mainstream. I like alternative looks. Bonus points: -switch -sporty (especially climbing and skiing) -creative -surprise me -high energy

Excited to hear from you.

-S

Thank you for reading this far. There is nothing below this point. Here be dragons. Seriously why are you still reading when you should be sending me a message? Stop. Reading. Last warning. Stop. Seriously. OK. You've done it. Spank yourself. Yes, right now. No, i don't care that you're reading this on the bus. Five times. And say sorry each time. Out loud.