To start us off-

• If you are looking for a quick fuck, look elsewhere
• Please be respectful in your message or I won’t respond.
• Please understand that I am not yours and I will not be calling you Daddy or Sir just because we start talking
• I know this post is really long but it’s very easy to tell if you’ve read it or not.

Hello! I am a 30 year old woman who is fairly submissive with a little side. I’m looking for a Daddy type who is kind, caring, supportive and very open to kinks. Bonus points if you can be a bit stricter at times when the situation calls for it. I am looking for only in person and ideally long term.

I live in Mill Creek and I work part-time as a nanny. Ideally you live somewhere between Everett- seattle. Past those will be too far for me I think. Please be looking for an in person relationship.

I’m looking for someone who will make me feel safe, support me through rough days, cheer for me when I’m trying new things. I also want someone who will help set rules that help me, make sure I follow those rules, and be willing to punish me if I break the rules. I have a long list of kinks and I really love having sex and being intimate with the right person.

About me: I’m 29, 5’7”, overweight and fat (this is something I really struggle with but I’m working with drs and nutritionists to help me get healthier.) I love cats, I’m super big into performing arts like ballet, musical theater, regular theater, etc. I also really enjoy kraken hockey, I’m not a huge fan of other sports but I’m willing to watch them. I love going on adventures and going places and I equally love staying home cuddling on the couch watching tv! I have asthma and do not want to be around anyone who smokes cigarettes or weed, if smoking is a big part of your life things won’t work between us.

What I’m looking for: cis male, preferably taller than me so 5’10” , ages between 28-50 (I’m willing to shift up or down for the right person), must be local to me, have your life together-ish, take care of your mental health. If you are married or currently going through a divorce I’m not interested. I prefer guys who don’t have kids. It would be a bonus if you have experience as a daddy dom

Things you should know-

• I ’m looking for someone who is open to the idea of being primary partners in a hopefully romantic relationship and sexual while having potential play partners or fwb on the side. I’d call it 95% monogamous with 5% ethical non monogamy

• I am very neuro diverse ( adhd, anxiety, working in getting evaluated for autism) my brain does not work the way most people’s does. I really need someone who can be patient, understanding and willing to learn my quirks. I struggle with vague language and need things to be spelled out for me. You’ll notice I write so much because I want to make sure someone understands what I’m saying so I over explain myself. I have many different sensory processing things that include all 5 senses, I’ve been working really hard to find solutions to the biggest problems.

• I am into age play and have a little side. I generally play around the ages 2-5ish. I love stuffies, pacifiers, sippy cups, fun plates, wearing onesies or cute clothes, all the cuddles, coloring, watching Disney movies, and lots more!! My little side can also become sexual depending on many factors.

• I am also extremely curious about abdl, I know this is a hard no for a lot of people but I’d really love to find someone who would be open to exploring abdl with me, especially me wearing diapers. I’ve always been too nervous to try them on my own.v

The most important thing for me is honesty and open communication, if you disappear for several days while we get to know each other without a heads up I assume your not interested and I block you. Please do not ghost me if we’ve started talking, simply say I’m not feeling a connection best of luck.

Thank you for reading through all of this! I’m excited to get to know people and hopefully find someone who is right for me! Feel free to chat or message, please put effort into your response, let me know what you liked from my post and tell me about yourself and what you’re looking for!