I’m a 33-year-old Dominant male from the dynamic city of New York. Dominance isn’t just something I do—it’s a core part of who I am, rooted in the drive to create meaningful, transformative connections. My approach is grounded in a blend of strength, empathy, and respect, allowing me to be both a steady guide and a protective presence.

Outside the lifestyle, I lead a life rich with passion and curiosity. I’m an avid reader, diving into philosophy, psychology, and literature because understanding the human mind is the cornerstone of true dominance. I’m equally drawn to the fine arts—whether I’m wandering through galleries, immersing myself in classical and jazz music, or enjoying a deep house beat during a workout.

Fitness is a pillar of my routine, keeping my mind and body sharp. Strength training, running along the river, and practicing martial arts form the backbone of my physical discipline. To me, a Dominant should embody strength in every sense, providing stability and security for their partner on all levels.

When it comes to kinks, my focus is on trust and mutual exploration. Power exchange is at the heart of my dynamic, supported by a framework of trust, structure, and devotion. I’m experienced in bondage, impact play, and sensory deprivation, which I use to enhance connection and intimacy. Rituals and routines are an integral part of the relationship, building trust and grounding us.

Consent is paramount. My hard limits include anything non-consensual, scat, extreme degradation, and anything that compromises dignity. For me, BDSM is about balancing control with care, dominance with compassion.

With nearly a decade of experience in this lifestyle, I’ve honed my ability to guide and connect on a deep level. I thrive on the psychological aspects of domination, focusing on trust and understanding as the foundation for everything we build together.

I’m looking for a submissive (F) between 18 and 35, ideally in the USA, but I’m open to navigating distance for the right connection. I’m drawn to someone eager for growth and self-discovery, who craves a Dominant that will challenge and elevate them.

A shared appreciation for life’s finer experiences is a bonus—whether through books, travel, or savoring small but meaningful moments. Together, I want to create a relationship that’s emotionally fulfilling, intellectually stimulating, and physically rewarding.

Communication is at the heart of everything I do. I take the time to foster a space where you feel safe to share your desires, boundaries, and dreams. Consent and clarity are non-negotiable in my approach, ensuring every scene and every step we take aligns with mutual respect and understanding.

I’m not interested in rushing. I’m here to build something lasting—something passionate, intentional, and deeply rewarding.

If the idea of a sophisticated, stimulating, and profoundly connected D/s relationship resonates with you, I’d love to hear from you. Tell me about yourself, what you’re looking for in a Dominant, and what’s shaped your journey so far. Let’s see where this path might take us.