Revised post, I apologize for the long post and appreciate those who take the time to read it and learn about what I'm looking for. I'm very much a quality over quantity type person and you can expect this level of commitment and communication if we are a fit. I very much hope to find someone with a similar mentality, who puts in significant effort, and who does not want a stable of subs, although I do not mind if you wish to have more than one.

I relocated to Southern Maryland a few months ago, and so far have not found the connections I hoped for. I'm just far enough from DC that everyday munches are a challenge, but close enough that a date night trying some good food in the city sounds wonderful.

I'm looking for something casual and consistent. I relocated for a new job, which I love (and probably will talk too much about), but it is busy and stressful. Let's have some casual dates exploring new eats (I'm def a foodie!), trying out an escape room, or playing a game online. I'm not demi in that I can feel sexual attraction without a connection, but its so much stronger if I have one. Specific to sexual attraction - I have a very high libido and would love to find someone who keeps up. If spicy thoughts are always on your mind we would get along. Want to play a coop board game where we tease each other while waiting for our turn? Did I roll a nat 1 on a persuasion check and need to be spanked to roll better? I can be insatiable and would love similar in my Domme.

Specifics: I would like to find someone who wants to chat daily, who shares some interests as me (both in kink and out), and who understands and preferably shares that work can get really busy sometimes. Someone who wants to learn and embrace my passions and what makes me tick while I do the same for them. For that person you'll find I am a very good communicator, warm, affectionate, educated, way too blunt and and horny at times, usually a complete goofball, very understanding, and very eager to get to know you inside and out.

Yes, I have a really high libido, but I don't want to only talk about the dirty stuff. In a perfect world I would find a partner with some mutual interests in board games, video games, tv binges, escape rooms, reading, bourbon, D&D, Marvel movies, football, camping, and food as me. Physically I have a broad build. I used to be a rugby player if it helps for an image. I'm 5'9'', 210, white, HWP/dad bod, masculine presenting with a beard and hairy chest.

I am most attracted to creative types who have things they are passionate about. I do have a preference for average, smaller-few extra pounds body types, but other than that I am much more attracted to ones personality and how they carry themselves. If you are comfortable in who you are and willing to laugh at yourself we will probably get along. Psychology is important to me, both in kink and in life in general.

Domme specific: I have no objection to a new or experienced Domme, I'd even go as far as to say I'm a natural teacher and patient sub to help guide someone inexperienced but interested. Whether new or experienced I am looking for someone able to communicate what they like/dislike and who you they are as a dominant. As an example, if your answer to what are your kinks is "I'm down to try anything" then we are not a good fit. I'd add that I am most weak for a dominant who is playful and creative, but also has a sadistic side. I'm open to an exclusively D/s relationship or a Domme leaning switch, as I do have a side of me that I would describe as a Dominant bottom that can make for an occasional fun change of pace.

Kink Specific: My kinks change in that I like a lot, but really like things to be varied. The most universal ones are Pegging/Prostate stimulation, orgasm control, and playful humiliation (for me this includes bodily fluids in my mouth like cum, spit, pee as well as mild feminization, chastity, and dirty praise like "you're being such a good slut for me"). With the right Domme I enjoy more direct types of humiliation as well. I also enjoy CBT (especially ballbusting), impact, T&D, bondage, e-stim, psychological domination, praise, worship, feet, sensory play, bi/group play, and plenty more. I like roleplaying, control, and creativity in play. I have a masochistic side once I'm in subspace. I respond very strongly to a verbal Dom/me, but equally enjoy a more gentle and encouraging Mommy type as well as a degrading but playful Sadist type, and especially someone who has moments where they can be either.

If you think you fit into that somehow message me how and we will chat more. I'm happy to share photos after a thoughtful reply, but please tell me about yourself and your interests when you respond.