Heya, I'm a 27 year old guy living in NYC. I'm looking for a sweet girl with a submissive side for a long-term relationship. Ideally you would be local to NYC but I'm also open to long-distance with the intention to move in together at some point. To start things off, here's a list of facts about myself:

• Physically: I'm white, I weight 145lbs, I'm 5'9", and I have short-medium brown hair and eyes with a face that is normally clean shaven. Slim with a fair amount of muscle.
• I am very independent. I live on my own with a couple of roommates and work part-time while going to school.
• I don't do smoke, drink, gamble, or do any drugs aside from my daily dose of caffeine. I'm fairly risk-averse and prefer my long-term well-being over my short-term enjoyment.
• I am strictly monogamous. Under certain conditions I would be open to including others in our relationship but will only ever be one person I put above everyone else.
• I'm more of an introvert at heart and I usually prefer spending my free-time either playing a game, watching a show, exercising, or practicing an instrument (although frankly I don't have much free time anymore).

Relationship wise, I'm really looking for someone that I can invest myself into and call my own. I'm very possessive and if we get along I will want to give you the world. I want to build a connection and regularly spend time talking to each other or doing things together. At some point when we are comfortable I would like to move in together. However, I'm not interested in having kids. My ideal life involves minimizing my worries, not adding to them.

Sexually, I have a dominant side that I'm not afraid to hide. I like to take the lead and give instructions, and I'm no stranger to dirty talk. Some of my kinks include orgasm control, denial, pet play, training and conditioning, light bondage, spanking and slapping. I would also like to explore tpe, free use, and cnc. Having a healthy sex life is important to me and hopefully it's important to you too.

If any of this interests you and you think we might be a good fit, send me a message and let's chat! Hope to hear from you soon :)