I don't know what to tell you. I'm kind of tired of having to write long-ass ads and selling an experience, or even just trying to explain who I am and what I want in a relationship so that it'll attract the right girl. Let alone if it then just crumbles because I wasn't exactly what someone expected.
I know that I'm fun to be around, I make great jokes, I'm smart, I'm attentive and emotionally intelligent. I know the difference between true (and sometimes serious and deep and 'not fun' because it's still a relationship at its core) dominance on the one hand, and BDSM as a fun and 'spicy' activity in the bedroom on the other hand.
I'm looking for a girl who is just as emotionally intelligent and can be a whole and self-sustaining human being, except with a need to be dominated.
I'm not looking to be a pleasure dispenser or a 'provider' and not get anything in return (Aren't we all equal? It's easy to want traditional gender role when it suits you, and then whine when the other side also wants what they should get). I'm not your unpaid therapist nor extension of your life who's going to 'fix' you. Then afterwards you still get to say no when I dominate you into doing things 'you don't want' (if we're D/s, then aren't I the dominant?)
That's it. There's nothing more to it.
I don't believe in unicorns or the 'perfect' partner. That implies that one person is perfect, or perfect for me. That's never the case. Do you think you could make the bold claim that there are perfect people out there? If not, we'll have to make do with how imperfect people are. Isn't that the point of a relationship? To grow into being the best partners for eachother?
Send me a message via reddit chat if this resonates with you and tell me the color of a strawberry.
Toodles.
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