Hello,

I’m a seasoned Dominant in my 30s living in Toronto and working for a US-based global software company. My life is demanding, fast-paced, and at times, intense. I channel this energy into my dominant role, creating an environment where both pleasure and submission are intertwined. I’m seeking a submissive partner who is eager to explore this with me—whether online, in person, or a mix of both.

About Me:

• Experience Meets Passion: With over 10 years in the BDSM lifestyle, I've learned to create immersive, tailored experiences that keep you on the edge of anticipation. My approach blends authoritative dominance with thoughtful care, ensuring every encounter leaves you feeling fulfilled and desired.
• Pleasure Dom with a Sadistic Streak: I’m a reaction junkie. The sound of your breath catching, the way your body responds, the flush of your skin—these moments fuel me. I love rough, passionate encounters that border on primal, where it feels almost like hate fucking but is tempered by care and consent. Yet, I’m meticulous in my attention to aftercare, making sure we both come down safely and feel connected.
• Subtle Hypnosis Cues: I enjoy weaving subtle hypnotic elements into our scenes, drawing you deeper into submission and enhancing the experience.
• Adept at Degradation and Praise: I know when to push with biting words and when to lift you with praise, balancing the dynamic with a seamless flow of control and tenderness.
• Emotional Intensity: My work and life experiences have made me direct, sometimes intense, and driven. This can translate into moments of aggression or frustration, but I value a submissive who can meet that energy, anticipate it, and see it as an opportunity to serve and ground me. This dynamic is about more than just play; it’s a partnership.

What I’m Looking For:

• A Submissive Ready for More: I want someone who isn’t just open to commands but craves the mental and physical space of submission. You should be excited to learn, grow, and embrace the anticipation of what comes next.
• Open-Minded and Mature: A partner who appreciates the psychological aspects of D/s, understanding that trust, patience, and mutual growth are key. We might stumble, but the strength lies in how we navigate those moments together.
• Bratty Enough for Fun, Submissive at Heart: I love a sub with a touch of mischief to keep things interesting, as long as you know when to yield. Your playful resistance only enhances my drive to take control, but topping from the bottom won’t be entertained for long. I'm a lot smarter than you think.
• Supportive Beyond the Scene: I’m not in the healthiest shape I could be and, while I’m not looking to delve into my struggles with depression, I’m open to a partner who can support me in small, meaningful ways. Think of it as part of our non-kink life, enhancing our bond and trust. To a lot I understand this is a deal breaker. However I do find it romantic that someone would be willing to invest in me in that way. While I've overcome many challenges in my life, my health has always been something that I've not cared at all for. I know, that's not very Dominant of me.

Flexibility with Dynamics:

I’m open to either a monogamous or ethically non-monogamous dynamic, depending on what aligns with your needs. I have experience in both and will maintain clear rules and boundaries that must be respected.

What to Expect:

Imagine sessions that start with anticipation and build into moments where you’re taken to the edge—whether through teasing, edging, or rough impact play. I’ll guide you, challenge you, and push you, all while watching your reactions with a careful eye. When the scene ends, aftercare begins. I believe it’s vital to reconnect, to make sure we both come down from that high and feel secure and valued. After you take a break, time for another round. Being vocal of your needs and limits is crucial as I enjoy making you into a glutton for pleasure.

A Glimpse into My Life:

• Introverted and Selectively Social: I know how to navigate social situations but prefer intimate, meaningful evenings at home with my sub.
• Family Ties: I’m not close to my family, so if you’re looking for someone who will bring you into a family dynamic, that’s not what I offer—but what I do offer is loyalty and devotion where it matters.
• Travel and Flexibility: My work has me traveling, so flexibility is key. Whether online or in person, I’m committed to making our dynamic thrive.

Kinks and Interests:

• Edging and Orgasm Control: I enjoy taking you to the brink and savoring every second of your submission.
• Impact Play and Rough Encounters: From sharp smacks to deep, passionate sessions that leave us both breathless.
• Degradation and Praise: The perfect mix of words that keep you craving more.
• Hypnosis Cues: A touch of psychological play to draw you deeper.
• Teasing and Sensory Play: Building anticipation and drawing out pleasure with expert precision.

If You’re Ready for This Journey:

If you’re looking for a Dominant who values depth, intensity, and mutual growth, reach out. Let’s see if we can create a connection that’s both electrifying and fulfilling, where each moment pushes boundaries and reinforces trust.

Looking forward to building something unforgettable,

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With how long this is I'm curious to see if anyone reads all of this. Good luck out there you kinksters!
Also learned that you cannot post links - nuked my previous post by wanting to add my kinksheet list so I'm reposting for posterity.