I'm looking for something quite specific.

I want to be in control, to be listened to, to have my directions followed. I spend my days feeling as though nothing is in my control and that everything I say is being ignored. Ideally, you're good at following directions. I'm also quite partial to voice calls and phone sex, and ideally, you're submissive and into these things as well.

In short, I want to tell you how to touch yourself. When to touch, what to touch, when to take your clothes off, which piece of clothing you take off, how fast, how slow, when to start, when to stop, when to cum. I want to build it up and tear it down, repeatedly, until you've either gotten frustrated to the point of insanity or you're begging for the release I may or may not let you have. I want to hear you say how good it feels just as much as I want to hear you swear at me for taking control away from you.

I do not like degradation or humiliation. I absolutely refuse to refer to anyone as "slut", "whore", "bitch", or anything similar, and I likely will not engage with you if you refer to yourself as such.

I prefer a gentler touch, which seems out of place in this particular sub. I like to praise and give affirmation, and can be fairly affectionate with my partner(s).

Things about me:

• Low voice
• Based in US Central Time, open to time zone differences
• Can and will engage in non-sexual conversation
• Likely will not be masturbating during a session

Do keep in mind that I work full-time, so daily communication might not happen. While I'm not opposed to something long-term, bear in mind I'm not looking for anything serious.

At the risk or scaring everyone off, here's my short list of requirements:

• No DDLG, CGL, I'm not "daddy", "master", or "sir"
• Must be 21 .
• No being drunk or high when messaging or during a call
• No low-effort messages (e.g.: the ones that go "hi", "i saw your post", "told u am gril pls respon", "i'm interested", "are you still looking", etc., without anything further)

I'm willing to give you a short warming-up period if you're unsure.

If you've made it this far, thank you for reading, please message with a little about yourself if you're interested.