You want an older man to make you feel safe, to serve as a mentor, to please as his personal toy, and to show a side of yourself that stays hidden to the vanilla world. I say taboo because there are few darker scenes that we will explore. I seek a psychologically driven dynamic - I have worked through my trauma issues as will you and found bdsm to be a gratifying outlet. My ability to connect and build deep intimacy is crucial to the experience. I embrace the rules based structure and discipline of BDSM and expect the same in you. The lifestyle has allowed me to become the best version of myself - assertive, confident, driven, successful, but also nurturing when needed. I will invest my time, energy, and resources in you - my reward is your submission, loyalty, and the satisfaction of seeing you evolve.

Me: I am physically attractive, patient yet firm. Professionally, I am PhD educated, a serial entrepreneur with flexibility in both travel and schedule. My personal interests include backcountry hiking, poker, and all things history/travel/culture and writing. Kink wise, I enjoy roleplay, power dynamics, DDlg (without extreme age-play), restraints/bondage, CNC, and much more. I am rarely interested in a single encounter - most of my past subs have been in training for several months, in some instances years.

You: See BDSM as more than a kink, are loyal, playful, and adventurous. I demand serious intent. Be prepared to submit to my ground rules of absolute honesty, communication, and mutual respect. Be willing to meet within a few weeks after trust and rapport is established. Travel is a non issue to me as I am a digital nomad. I prefer you to be located in the SouthEast US, for the right connection willing to travel further especially to places that interest me. Bonus if you know how to write, roleplay, and willing to move it to in person scenes. I have a vetting process to ensure compatibility the first step of which is DM'ing me your interest in my approach.