Hello there! I'm looking for someone local who wants a genuine, monogamous relationship (hopefully for life). I want to take some time to get to know and trust you before getting sexual. Emotional connection means a lot to me, and while I may be a little shy or awkward at first, I will be fully and completely yours if you give me a little patience and kindness. I am very open, and have no issue answering any questions or providing more specifics about almost anything.
So more about me: I'm a 5'11", 23 year old heterosexual white male with light brown hair, hazel eyes, and glasses. I live in the Northern Virginia area. I am introverted by nature, but if I'm comfortable with you I can be very energetic and playful. I am pretty in touch with my emotions, and I'm not ashamed of expressing myself, including crying if it happens. In a similar vein, I am very honest (sometimes blunt), and I detest lying. As such, I ask that you don't lie to me; you don't have to tell me things you're not comfortable with sharing, but just don't lie about it, tell me no instead.
For my SFW interests, I like keeping myself busy doing activities and playing games. I love hiking, games of lots of types (card, board, video, billiards, D&D, etc.), enjoying nature, watching anime, and more. I'm not a sports fan, but it's okay if you are. I also adore SFW physical contact; cuddling, hugs, hand holding, you name it. It makes me feel happy, safe, and wanted.
As for the more NSFW side of things, I will fully admit that my experience is limited. I have had a small amount of experience with sexual touching and oral, and I have a fairly large amount of textbook knowledge, but I've never actually had intercourse. I'm a soft submissive, and am uncertain if I can switch. As for my kinks, there is still a fair amount of experimenting that would need to eb done to figure everything out, but I am fully open to trying things. I do think I would prefer someone on the gentler side, but I don't mind trying rougher things. Here is a list of kinks I'm certain I enjoy: * Praise * Body worship * Bondage * Power exchange * Collaring * Encouragment * Teasing * Breath play * Spit play
I'm uncertain about a few kinks, but I'm okay with trying them. Such kinks are pain play, CEI, pegging, water-sports, and humiliation. Hard limit kinks would be forced bi, CBT, scat and blood play, and severe pain.
Lastly, my partner preferences. I'm pretty open to most body types and appearances, but I do prefer people on the thinner side. The preferable age range would be between 22-30, but that's not a hard limit. Beyond that, I don't use recreational drugs, and I would prefer if you didn't either (drinking is fine, but I don't drink either). Please also be clean of STIs; I am tested and clean, a need the same. On a different vein, direct and honest communication will be needed and be the cornerstone of everything; if there is ever problem, please tell me so we can address it and keep it from festering.
As a disclaimer, I will ask for a couple SFW pictures to verify you are real, and I will send some myself as well. I also don't live alone at the moment, and there isn't too terribly much space at my place, so keep that in mind.
If you're interested, please reach out and provide your age, general locaton (not specific of you don't want to), and anything you think we match well with.
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