Hey :) I'm Adam, M30, and over the last years, I've found my most rewarding dynamics through this subreddit. I've been busy with work throughout autumn, but now that the year is coming to an end, I want to dive into the kink community again. So what am I looking for exactly?

What do dynamics with me look like?

I'm looking for a gorgeous, unsuspecting girl who's as messed up inside as I am. During the day, I'll be the guy that your dad wants his little princess to bring home: I want to have someone who inspires me, who I can adore, I who I can dream of and genuinely care for. But at night I'll rearrange your guts, degrade you and leave you a beaten, drooling, wet mess ❤️

For me, a good dynamic is like a good crêpe: sweet and salty. I want to chat with you, share memes, laugh and talk about the days. People have described me as caring and empathetic. I genuinely want my subs to be happy. I'll gladly listen to you when you're sad and build you up when you're down. However, I'll turn much more primal and unhinged when I desire you in a different way until your legs are shaking and I'm empty.

My kinks are CNC, anal, painal, degradation, humiliation, impact play, breath play, tunnel play, cock worship, feet, rimjobs and many more. Limits are animals, scat and nterferences with my daily life.

Another thing I like doing is setting up rules, connected to rewards and punishments connected to it. We can even set up an overall goal or image to slowly mold you after (achieving good grades, making friends, becoming more sexual). This way punishments and rewards become even more meaningful.

Who are you actually getting in bed with?

I'm 1.94, 84kg, dark hair, dark eyes and I'm based in Central Europe. I'm assertive and driven, but rather introverted. I'm caring and try to be a good person every day (you'll only see parts of this, however 😉). I'm a psychologist and work partly with patients and partly with large cooperations as a management consultant. Due to my work, I need to dress up properly and wear suits most days. In my free time I like travelling, learning new languages, anime & games, psychology and philosophy - and most of all spend time with my cats :)

My job is also quite demanding, so I won't be available 24/7 and won't expect the same from you. We both have our private lives and restrictions that come with that :)

What should you do now?

If you think, our personalities, expectations and kinks align, drop me a brief message. I'll ask you to verify quickly, too, and will do the same and then we can explore if we match.

Tl;dr: if you're a fascinating human being who's secretly up for a bit of genuine care and a bit of sadism, reach out :) if not, keep scrolling 🙏