I am a 38 year old, single, submissive woman currently living in Alabama. Actively looking for a local play partner and/or a long-term D/s relationship. I would prefer IRL but am open to an online dynamic if the right person comes my way.

No one under 35 or over 55, please. I am not into big age gaps.

I am not a skinny lady. I’m chubby/fat but also strong as hell. I was cursed with short, stocky Eastern European grandma genes and, well, what can ya do. I am physically active and mentally sound. I like to say it gives you more hold onto, slap around, and you’ll get the most beautiful bruises 😏 Also, I’m not ultra-feminine. I prefer comfy clothes over fancy. I do enjoy exploring my feminine side but, naturally, I’m going to choose comfort first.

I am fairly introverted and will quickly choose hanging out with a small group of friends over a rowdy night out. I enjoy reading, cooking, hiking, swimming, hanging out with my dogs, a good fire pit on a cool night, and a nice cold IPA. I’m funny, loyal, and caring.

I am looking for a Dom with a good bit of experience in kink. Someone kind and caring but also confident and competent. I have my shit together and expect you to as well. You must believe in mental health care and have easy access to your therapist. I like someone mildly nerdy but who also enjoys a more mainstream lifestyle. I want to watch sports, go hiking, check out breweries with you. I also understand that we both have work and life to balance and will do my best to make our time together intentional and expect you to as well.

I am a masochist and would prefer someone with a sadistic side but I do need some balance. Need a little bit of sweetness and caring mixed in with the pain and want someone who understands and strongly believes in aftercare.

Kink wise: I am into impact play, TPE/Authority transfer, free-use, all things anal, breast/nipple play, rules and structure, bondage, sensory deprivation, wax play, electro play, orgasm control/denial, general frustration, breeding, bathroom control, and others we can chat about that I’ve definitely forgotten to add.

Limits: anything illegal, blood, poop/pee, social suicide, blackmail, bimbofication, dollification, and, same as above, probably others that I haven’t added.