Yes. I’m not a TS superfan but I have always liked that song and think the vibes it creates is fairly representative of what I am looking for in a relationship. So I recommend turning it on to play in the background as you read :). Who doesn’t love good vibes?

I’ve heard the most important step you take is the next one. Like many deep ideas I think that can be as deep and superficial as you want and reflects the ideology of the person interpreting it (here, you) more than the person who said it, like much of philosophy, history, ideology, and other things ending in -gy or -ism. I am a homebody introvert that loves to be outside and social, like a battery that slowly recharges but then is electric with energy when full. Do with it what you will.

About Me

I’m 34 and live in the Bay Area, CA, though I have lived all over the US and also abroad for several years and may move in the future. I work as a transactional lawyer for a big law firm. I love history, reading, good stories, fun games, parties, traveling, and so much. I think if you ask most people what they love, then analyze how much time they spend doing those things, it will reveal a… sad truth? Hypocrisy? Guide for how you should live better? I do think it’s important to live life to the fullest and I this is what we get, and that’s partly why I am here. Looking for you. For the life I want. But damn if I don’t find it hard sometimes.

Relationship Desires

Some say love is a soul ‘s recognition of its counterpoint in another (get the reference?)… that sounds like bullshit. But good bullshit. Which sometimes is better than truth. I’m looking for my counterpoint. Obviously not something who shares every single interest but shares enough, who appreciates and complements my attitude and nature. Cheatsheet would indicate someone intelligent, romantic, sensual, caring, fun, in charge, attractive.

Kink So I don’t like discussing before I know someone. But physical touch is my love language. Holding hands, massages, making out for hours, are all part of what I want. Trying really hard and surprisingly succeeding being pg here. I enjoy control but want a strong partner. I could write pages of my desires and have before but I promise using that energy to make a dream become reality rather than stay fiction will make us both happier and more content.

If this speaks to you. If you think you are my soul’s counterpart, then take the first step and just say yes.