Hi. I'm looking for a longterm, unconventional, marriage oriented relationship with a man who's both a protector-provider AND a submissive. Before I get any further, verification after initial conversation is absolutely mandatory, in the form of a video call. I have had some very negative experiences with submissives/scams in the past and going forward, I make the choice to be much more cautious with my safety. I specified men, but a lovely butch woman could easily be the one to make me happy forever.

Older men are strongly preferred, and the youngest I would take/ be able to work with is 25-35 years old. That's the youngest I would work with.

Strongly prefer men from the UK, Ireland or Switzerland as those are places I'd be happy to settle down in.

The relationship would follow a timeline where we talk online for a bit and get to know each other for a few weeks, and spend the next 2 years in long distance with you coming to me once every 6 months. I want you to visit in January 2025. Message me to check in during the ldr phase at least once a day or so. After the 2 years, we'd spend a year where you can visit me anytime at all and even cohabit with me. At around the 3 year mark I'd expect a proposal and I'd move in with you.

I want to emphasize that I would never be with a man if he wasn't a FULL, GENEROUS provider. I would also never be with a man if he wasn't completely submissive to me. Here's a little more about your responsibilities if you're interested in the role:

1.Everyday service: When I'm with you I expect my thermos filled up with tea and put on my bedside table, along with a glass of water before you start your workday and leave. Make me breakfast and leave it for me with a cute note. Doesn't have to be a long note. When you come home, I expect a good kiss and you to get on your knees to eat me out Before bed I like my hair brushed. I have long silky black hair. Then, run me a bubble bath and bathe me with your own hands, dry me, apply lotion to my entire body and dress me.

1. Provide and Protect: I expect you to be able and enthusiastic about handing my needs and my wants. You shouldn't even just do it, you should take enormous pleasure in doing that for me. It should be the pride of your life, the reason you work so hard. All for me, your princess. So that the woman you love can wake up at 10 am to have breakfast, make you lunch, drive to your office and drop off your lunch for you, spend the rest of the day reading, shopping playing with a puppy and lounging in your pool. Your other job as a man is to protect, so going to the gym and having muscle is appreciated by me

2. Romance: I want to be your princess 24/7. I expect a romantic date once a week at least once we are in person, flowers, doors opened, being carried around. Total, complete princess treatment. I'm your queen and I'm to feel like it, always. Additionally, Im at a stage of my life right now where things are very stressful and hectic for me, so I expect to be handled gently always and supported fully by you.

3. Submission: I own you inside and out, fully, through and through. When I want you bent over, you obey. When want your mouth on my chest or pussy, you obey. When want to punish you, you comply fully. If I want my feet or hands kissed, you help. You will never cum again without my permission and supervision if I claim you as mine. You would be collared 24/7 (day-collar).

If you want to be owned by a beautiful woman who stands on your throat and possesses every part of you, and you meet my standards, feach out with all your key information on how you fit with what im asking for. I'm posting a list of deal breakers and deal makers which I will be adding to as I go along, so see also how you line up with those.

All low effort, unserious and off topic messages will be ignored and possibly blocked, if I do see them.

Edit: I have to emphasize I will never do online only, substanceless play. Also I'm saving my virginity for my husband post-marriage so regardless of what you look like or offer me, if you haven't already married me, that's not on the table.