Throwing my message in a bottle into the sea again. We will find each other in this life or the next.

Looking to get to know you deeply first. What do you want out of a relationship ? True fierce commitment? Internal strength to stay the course and not give up at the slightest challenge the relationship faces? My strength to carry us through at times when needed? Your dedication and submission earned through deep trust and by action of virtues?

Let's talk if this sounds what you're seeking. No games, no fantasy knight in shining armor here to save anybody. Just a human looking for the deepest connections in mind, body and spirit.

To describe myself. I honestly don’t like labels because they pigeonhole certain aspects of “Kinkdom”. But if I were to label myself it would be as a Top/caretaker/protector. I can lead and be “dominant” when I need but not looking for a TPE or dominant 24/7 total dynamic since I live in the real world.

I have experience and like giving orgasm denial, sexual & nonsexual task assignments, nipple, breast & pussy play, squirting & “torture”, pain/masochism to a moderate level but no blood, scarring, or extremes, anal plugs, consensual verbal degradation, restraining, restricting movement, ball gags, blindfolds, sensory deprivation, and who knows what I’ve missed.

All these are negotiable and not requirements per se, just some of the experiences I've had. I guess we can discuss all that in the future if it goes that far, our wants, needs, and desires in and out of the kink world.

Hard Limits – no blood, scat, anything illegal or non – consensual.

Looking for my good girl whore to love, adore and use. I am looking for an awesome mind and soul to begin with, age 30 HW proportionate and has something unique about them, an x factor so to speak.

I know...vague right?

You are possibly in the arts, or creative field in some way, or highly intelligent? I do tend to be a sapiosexual and do love to talk about a myriad of subjects from sciences, philosophy, music, and the human condition.

An ethereal spirit here on earth...or you think you might have been born in the wrong era. I feel this at times as well. You’ll know if this resonates with you in some way.

A bit about me. have short brown hair with a few greys thrown in as well as a short beard, brown eyes, 5’ 9’’ tall and weigh 168 lb. medium build and fit/strong for my age.

I consider myself intelligent, humorous, unique and self-taught in most respects since my university degree is basically a piece of paper I bought and learned mostly nothing there.

I am very creative with my hands and mind, take that as you will, wink wink.

If this sparked your interest, contact me through DM and mention the word Braising in your message so I know you have read this entire post.

Did I mention I can cook you a meal you’d take your panties off for? Ex professional Chef as well.

Looking forward to hearing from you and thanks for reading all the words 😊

🥂 Cheers - Chef