There’s a certain symmetry to the search for something real—an alignment of paths, minds, and intentions. I’ve been drawn to the complex and the unfamiliar for years now, yet always on my own terms, as if the real discovery lay just out of reach. My experiences as a Dom have taught me much about power and restraint, but curiosity has always led me to the edge of something more.

I’m here because I can’t escape the pull toward the unknown: the idea of trust and surrender balanced against strength. The thought of relinquishing control is both tempting and unsettling, but it feels like a path worth exploring with someone equally thoughtful, someone who understands the value of boundaries and intention.

I'm an INTJ, by nature and habit, a mind shaped by structure and subtlety. Some might see me as reserved or serious, but I’d say I’m just selective. Laughter comes easily when shared with the right person, and I value discipline and focus in all pursuits—physical and mental. I thrive in the space between observation and action, always grounded by a sense of purpose.

I admire those who hold to high standards and don’t make apologies for it. If you’re the kind of person who knows exactly who you are, I’d likely recognize that in you. This isn’t about trying to find “something” but about discovering something worthwhile.

The edges of my interests are best explored in quiet company, where words are not wasted and intention is everything. My curiosities lean toward what I can give up in trusted hands, with limits held as clearly as expectations. Feminization is a firm line for me; I seek balance, not transformation, a respect for the parts of me that are unchanging.

If you’re reading this and feel a similar pull, let’s talk. I’m here to explore with the kind of person who understands both strength and subtlety, and who knows that real connection can’t be rushed.

Bonus - Just some cool pictures I found:

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