I’ve been searching here a while. Posted a few times. Responded to some posts. No luck so far. I’ve met some interesting people, but nothing that has just fully clicked. So here we go again…

What I’m seeking is a life partner, a relationship, but all centered on our 24/7 dynamic of Dominant/submissive. I want the laughter, the inside jokes, the mundane of paying bills and housework, the friendship, the growing together, and much more. What I don’t want is a dynamic or relationship solely based on sex - you won’t find any of that in this post. While we will absolutely have some (a lot of) incredible sex, that’s secondary to the connection and relationship that serves as the foundation.

As an experienced dominant partner, I fall somewhere between a Dominant and a Daddy. I possess a unique blend of strictness, structured, discipline, and intensity of a true Dominant along with the care, nurture, and gentleness of a Daddy (If you’re looking for any kind of age play or age regression, I’m not your guy. That’s a hard limit). This isn’t a role that I “play” but rather a natural state of being. I’m a leader of people that has a high capacity for decision making, guidance, love for those under my care, possessiveness, and protection. I’m incredibly perceptive and a details guy - down to the smallest piece of micromanagement. I have high standards for myself as well as my partner. I have a dry sarcastic sense of humor and enjoy making people laugh. I’m intelligent and successful with a stubbornness that doesn’t allow me to fail.

The type of partner that typically mixes best with me is a natural submissive that has inclination to be a more service oriented submissive. She’s perceptive, intelligent, capable, hard working, and ambitious. Like me, she doesn’t do anything half-ass. She may have experience in the space or she may not. She’s willing to learn, naturally deferent, and she seeks guidance from her Dominant in all things. She is likely someone that seeks and enjoys being clingy and needy for her partner once there is a closeness established. She falls more on the obedient end of the spectrum rather than brat, but still has a bit of playfulness in her.

The dynamic I seek is a 24/7 dynamic that moves toward the spectrum of TPE/micromanagement, but all within a level of practicality of a relationship. Our dynamic will look different in private than it does in public. It will look different in front of friends and family. But, it will always be present and we will always be in our established roles.

Physically, I’m 6’0” and fairly fit. I enjoy staying active and would like a partner that also enjoys staying active. I tend to go for partners that are more petite. Age wise, I’m not super set on anything. I’m more interested in maturity and connection than the age number. I’d say for sure must be 20 and probably no older than 40.

Thanks for coming to my Ted Talk.

Hope to hear from you!