Hey there, I am writing here to hopefully meet my IRL person! Just a normal dude shooting his shot over here in the oddest of places. 😆 I will talk about kinky stuff a bit further down in the post but first, the important and meaningful stuff.

I am honestly a bit exhausted in this dating game, endless swiping on faces in apps, or meeting at questionable bars, and I am ready to meet someone I intend to be with for a long time. I really do care more about the substance of you as a person than how you look, although attraction is obviously a bit of a factor. I want to be truly excited by someone again. I want someone I can rely on. I want to be incredibly loyal, clingy and faithful to someone, take care of each other, and be by your side all the time whenever I can be. I really want to help my person through life as best I can. 😊 I have a very soft and sweet nature. I am very affectionate and sweet. Honestly I would love to sit on a girl's lap and cuddle into her and just feel accepted. 🥰

I am looking for a real monogamous long term FLR relationship hopefully leading to marriage or at least living together long term. I am a very hardworking, kind and sweet guy. I am college educated and have a stable career. I am in good financial standing with no real debt or criminal record.

I am very faithful, very sweet, and have average looks. I am not looking for a mean/strict domme but hopefully someone sweet who will help guide me, encourage me, appreciate my kindness and soft nature, snuggles, faithfulness, and let me in turn take care of her in every way I can with true dedication or do life tasks for her. I am a bit soft when compared to a lot of guys and tend to wear my heart on my sleeve and it has hurt me in in the past unfortunately.

I live in central North Carolina but am open to living most places. I enjoy a variety of different things. I love video games/PC gaming, the outdoors, hiking, road trips, traveling, listening to music, being creative, reading, long drives, watching movies or shows, and listening to podcasts. If you play certain games, I will gladly play them with you! I'm also open to trying new hobbies with my partner.

The kinky stuff:

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I have known I was mostly a subby for a long time, all the way back when I was 19 thanks to my highschool gf. I have had a lot of vanilla/normal relationships throughout my life, but through some soul searching I really realized that I'd love to submit forever 😅 My dream is to truly submit and surrender to someone I dearly trust. My partner is my world and my dream is to be able to give myself fully to my person. I just want to have a deep & loving relationship with someone. I'm very kinky, submissive and down for most things. I am interested in trying pegging/BDSM with the right person whom I can trust. Any other way that you would like to show dominance over me is fine too.

Communication is key. I also like being marked, bullied, pushed around once I trust you. I am basically looking for someone who is very sweet, nurturing and maternal but maybe with a dark sadistic side as well. I love cuddling too. You can sit on my face and have me eat you out for hours, or be rough with me and shove me around, whatever you wanna do for the most part once we get to that point, but it will take a while to get there and trust you to that level.

Dealbreakers/No Go stuff:

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Excessively being mean/abusive to me just because you're the dom in the relationship.

Body waste/blood/barf

Non monogamy / forced bi or introducing a 3rd

Permanent damage

Cheating / ignoring each other's needs.

I only want a monogamous real relationship

If any of this resonates with you, reach out and we can start by getting to know each other in a normal way, maybe voice chatting/text chatting. Thanks for reading.🫶