Hello, Thank you for taking the time to read my post. As it says I’m looking for someone who truly understands what this lifestyle means as a whole. I’ve been on the hunt for a while now and I’m so sick and tired of the mind games, ghosting, posters, fake, and phonies. To be quite honest, it’s mentally exhausting and rather disgusting. But! I haven’t given up hope. I will be completely honest and up front with whom ever is reading, I have a long distance Dom. We don’t unfortunately get to talk on a daily basis and it is due to life and the demanding job that he has plus the fact that we have conflicting schedules a lot. He is completely aware that I talk and play with others and he is encouraging of it. He thinks it’s wonderful that I’m constantly able to grow and learn in ways that I might not be able to deal with him. I am aware that that’s not everybody’s cup of tea and I respect that. However, I would like to get to know someone whose experience with this lifestyle has helped them become a mature, open minded person. Someone who is passionate, patient, nonjudgmental, knowledgeable, kind, caring, funny, loves some fun sassy banter 🤭and is willing to communicate. I firmly believe that you can never over communicate in this lifestyle. That is the way to a healthy foundation that is built on trust and vulnerability along with respect. I never want to see myself as “less than” rather equal but a mutual respect that I have a role as well as the other person. I have been in this lifestyle for 8 years now and I for one know that 95% of it is mental and emotional there is the fun and sexual side but i feel like 90% of people forget that this isn’t all sex all the time. I’m looking for the person that just wants to talk and get to know ME and learn what makes me tick. Let’s things grow organically. I will tell you my kinks as we go that’s half the fun of learning about each other. I hope that something peaked your interest, if not, I’m wish you the best. Good luck and I hope to hear from you soon.