Oh, I've been looking, but what I've found, I’ve found lacking.

And what I lack, I have not found.

Has it been the same for you?

Could it be you, Me, Us?

Whether a neophyte just starting to explore her kinks and sexuality or an experienced sub who's seen it all, you may struggle to find someone worth your devotion. I'm ready to take on the challenge and make it so you find your bliss in my happiness. Even from afar, I know how to lead, teach, and ensure physical barriers pose no obstacle to the many thrills we enjoy together.

A creative and curious mind from the heavenly tropics, I spent some time in the US East Coast last spring and then had a wonderful summer wandering between Europe and Asia. Travel is a possibility, now and in the future. No matter where you are, if we are meant to find each other, we'll find a way.

What we build together could be a temporary respite. It could also be something more lasting. Beyond the time we spend together, what I wish to find is a meaningful connection.

Us

Let’s become friends, lovers, and true partners who deeply care for and immensely enjoy each other's company. Kink-wise, I favor discipline, physically demanding tasks and control, love public humiliation, dabble in light bondage, enjoy dishing out a good spanking now and then, like to be playful and adventurous and vary things, going from primal to sensuous, raw and aggressive to soft and gentle.

I expect integrity, honesty, kindness, sincerity, loyalty, faithfulness, and obedience. To these core values I add respect and empathy; those are a must at all times: before, during, and even after anything that may develop between us.

I like to indulge in the finer things of life, while caring more about experiences than status, luxury, and possessions. Hopefully we share that mindset and a fondness for travel and adventure.

Me

I love arts and culture; enjoy reading and writing; and like to discuss films and literature. I have strong opinions but consider myself flexible, taking pleasure in talking about existential subjects while also partaking in light-hearted moments. A healthy bond is built on trust and balance; It's nice to be with someone you can be serious and have fun with at the same time.

I intend to listen, get to know, and guide you to become both the best version of yourself and the kind of woman I want by my side. Beyond BDSM, the softer side of things strongly appeals to me. Should we build a relationship, I wish for a traditional, loving, highly sexual, and D/s-based bond.

A perfectionist, I am strict, can be quite the disciplinarian, and work best with a girl who knows who she is and what she wants or someone looking to develop a better structure in her life.

you

I'm looking for a kind, intelligent, and beautiful girl who cares about the world and those who live in it. Someone who takes good care of her body but favors even more cultivating her mind and soul. All the better if she likes reading fiction and poetry, watching arthouse films, and visiting museums and art galleries around the world.

Heart and humanity matter most, but an appealing phyisique is also important to me. I favor traditional beauty standards and I am drawn to women who are height-weight proportionate, perhaps with delightful curves on a slim frame, but ideally petite, on the slimmer and fitter side of things.

Age is not a major factor to me. Your essence matters most as I look for a cultured, confident, smart, physically active, sensitive, empathetic, beautiful, sexy, warm, and cheerful girl.

be Mine

Let's get to know each other, understand what we want and could build together, then form a strong, passionate bond that leads to a happy and fulfilled relationship. We can make the world our playground and I very much want to fall under your spell and make you my plaything, too. Should you be the one I'm looking for, you may find yourself equally enthralled by me.

I do ask you to accept me being involved with other women while you devote yourself solely to me. You could be nonchalant about it. You're just as likely to have let out a sigh. I understand it may prove challenging, but I trust you'll find our relationship quite rewarding nonetheless.

I'll make these first instructions simple enough. I expect you to follow them to a T. Should you feel ready for that leap of faith, reach out and boldly take those firsts steps in my direction.

• Tell me about yourself, what makes you tick, and your everyday
• Send a couple of pictures (or more, should you feel comfortable).
• Let me know what struck you about this post of mine.