Thanks for taking a look! I'm British but living in Japan at the moment. I would like to offer a flexible dynamic for when we both want to play with designated free periods, controlled by yourself.

I envision a dynamic where at any time, you can tell me to lock up and begin the 'on' period. When you give the instruction you become my keyholder (I'm trustworthy but if you want to discuss the particulars of the key during we can). We can discuss what this means as to what you'd like out of the dynamic - it could involve tasks, teasing, chat and the such. This could last for hours days or weeks until a trigger - normal orgasm as one example - places us into the off state. We can still talk as friends but the dynamic will be temporary lifted until *you* want to lock me up again.

I am seeking this as with my previous IRL keyholder I found our 24h period after orgasm made me more excited to get locked again while I enjoyed the slight reprieve and freedom it bestowed. Likewise, I have like the idea of at any moment that same freedom could be stripped away. If you like the idea of the dynamic, I'd like to hear what draws you to it or with what modifications you'd like to see.

Some of my own kinks include bondage, chastity, power exchange and nipple play, but first is servitude, so I want to sculpt my own desires around what pleases you while we're on. I am 6 foot tall with long brown curly hair, an average build with large shoulders and alternate between a beard and none.

Outside of kink (which let's be honest is most of the time, and I'd still like to chat beyond play) I enjoy gaming in various forms, Japanese and Korean music, going on long, long walks (once summer ends I have some 8 hour walks planned between cities).

P.S. If you live/visit the UK or Japan, this could incorporate the 'on' time IRL in theory, but isn't the aim of this post.

Thanks for reading :)