Hi Thank you for stopping by, I appreciate your interest in my post.

So I am on the search for a LTR that either revolves around or includes a D/S dynamic. This would be monogamous and at the core a relationship built on trust, respect, communication and love.

Me Im a 27M nerdy programmer(previously wildlife photographer), caucasian, short brown hair, brown eyeys, 6'3, facial hair(optional), GMT 2, 101kg working on slimming down, spending a lot more time getting outside rather than being at my desk, I am averagely fit and healthy though.

I have a job, my own place and am stable in my everyday life. Big gamer when I have the time also total weeb for anime and manga. Metalhead with mix of other odd genres. Pretty good with my hands, I built an outdoor shower and am generally the one family call to fix something (what did you think I meant by good with my hands).

Definitely an introvert and an overthinker. I tend to keep to myself and avoid crowded areas although I enjoy a stimulating conversation. Almost any topic just depends how much I know about it to have decent input but happy to learn something new, I'm a sponge for information. F1 fanatic always wanted to be a race car driver. I love figuring out how something works, so I can understand it better.

I am a newbie when it comes to BDSM with another person. In private I have done a decent amount on my own but that can only get you so far. I have not been lucky with relationships as they have all been vanilla. I am at the point of putting this side of me in a box and throwing it into the ocean otherwise I may never be happy. So here I am after my other attempts have failed.

My other attempts just for the curious FetLife - lots of fakers and ghosters Munches - got drugged not going back, it was hard enough working up the courage to go alone to try talk to a room full of strangers Tinder - pointless and stupid Previous relationships have been through friends or random occurances. I think geographically I'm just in a bad place for this kind of thing.

I vape, smoke weed and drink. I have no problem quitting either of these if need be.

I don't have any preferences about body type just that you are healthy, it is no fun of you get out of breath after a few minutes. Other than that I am more focused on an emotional connection. Bonus points for nerdy metalheads.

Kinky me Switch falling over sub As I said I'm a newbie but I have been very interested in d/s dynamic since I was around 15. There is something about giving up control to someone you trust and just being left in their hands that I find quite alluring from both perspectives. My sub side enjoys being at the beck and call of someone to make their life easier and more pleasurable be that doing all the chores, giving massages preparing dinner or just using my face as a throne. My dominant side likes having the control and being the center of attention but that can quickly fall apart as I start to feel anxious and doubt what I am doing or if I am doing it right. Mainly I want to be able to explore with someone to learn and figure out together what is best for both of us.

Kinks There are a alot but these I definitely know I am into as I either enjoy doing them by myself or have had a long running interest.

Bondage (D/S) Anal play/pegging (D/S) Roleplay (D/S) Pet play (D/S) Free use (D/S) Spanking (D/S) Mommydom (S) Daddydom (D) I have a fetish for women's clothing but not sure if that is more about the clothing or who is wearing it.

Limits Serious or permant harm Scat Blood Sph Cuckolding Public play Findom Forced bi

Other than that I am curious to try anything once so just ask if you don't see what you are looking for.

Happy to share sfw pics(first pics we send should be verified for so we each have piece of mind we know who we are talking to) but the naughtier stuff will have to wait till there is some trust between us.

So that's basically it, if you made it all the way here I hope something resonated with you and I haven't wasted your time.

Please include some info about yourself I don't expect the same amount I have given but something for me to engage with at the very least.

Thanks for taking the time to read this, I appreciate it. I hope to talk soon.