Me: Stressed & Depressed transmasc sub in the throes of ADHD burnout looking to outsource my dopamine production so I don't fail my hardest class this semester
You: Organized Dom age 33-50 willing to be a source of external control I can submit to for my betterment. Probably best if you are in Central, Mountain, or Pacific Time Zone.
My main problems: * Chaotic sleep pattern * Medication avoidance * Doomscrolling instead of studying * Hours-long baths
Possible solutions: * Morning check-ins * "Did you take your meds?" * "Study for an hour, and then we'll play" * Watching me bathe so you can tell me when to finish
Possible tools: * Webcam (me only) * Lovense long-distance toys * I've not used the Obedience app but it seems like it might work.
Limits: * No misgendering * No personal info * General life stuff will be non-specific (I won't tell you my meds or university, for instance) * I don't camwatch and am not really interested in receiving pics * No blackmail kink
Lots more I could type but at this point this is a post of desperation. If you have experience with behavior modification of subs, please chat me if you're interested.
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