Hello! My name is Sara, and I'm 30. I'm a sub from NJ. I weigh about 215 and stand at 5'5. I have light brown hair to about shoulder length, maybe more and dark brown eyes. I wear glasses and tend to wear more comfier clothes, everyday. But I will dress up for special occasions and other events. I don't mind dressing up, but I worked my way through retail and lived alone for a while. So I tend to prefer more practical clothing. I enjoy working with my hands or cooking and I’ve found I will ruin clothes if I’m wearing something too nice. I only put on makeup when it's a special occasion, but I do have a lot of it if it is needed.

Ideally, I'm looking for someone near me for a monogamous LTR BDSM relationship or friendships with people in the dynamic. Friendships I'm happy to take from anywhere and just chat. I am even on fetlife too, so I’m happy to make friends on there. But to be a sub for a dom, I would only take in person. I'm happy to chat online, but before I would do any play I need to meet the person first.

Outside of kink, I enjoy reading, music, puzzles, cooking, and playing video games. I'm a pretty big nerd on comic book movies, Harry Potter, Pokemon, and Digimon. I’ve been watching the some football games (both NFL and college) and Youtube videos a bunch recently. I go out for daily walks with my dog and love going to parks. I am currently listening to The Last of Her Kind book and reading the City of Glass series. This year I finished the Fourth Wing series and A Court of Thorns and Roses, Good Omens, The Lost Apothecary, and The Making of Another Motion Picture Masterpiece. I listen to mostly 80's rock or alternative music. My playlist has been described as headache inducing due to its sheer randomness. I love trying new foods and attempting to recreate them. I love creating interesting desserts, but I don't have much of a sweet tooth. I love spicy food too! My choice is always to make something spicy, if I can. Currently, I'm trying out Warframe with friends. I also play a lot of simulator games, farming or collection games. I play a decent amount of Minecraft still.

Kink wise, I’m a big brat and I enjoy bondage, orgasm control/denial, pet play, anal, rope play, role play, sensation play, pain play, and more. I have experience doing things to myself or following online directions. I have limited in person experience, though. I'm curious about DDLG, but I have no experience in that at all. My hard limits are scat, ass to mouth, blood, and permanent harm/damage. I do have a more comprehensive list of my kinks and limits as a google Doc, too. I also have plenty of fantasies I'd love to try too.

What I'm looking for: someone who is between the ages of 26 to 36, body type does not matter. Someone who is willing to work with a relatively inexperienced sub. Someone who is living nearby or willing to relocate. I am okay with starting online. I am too involved with my family to move far from them, though. So basically only a state away maximum. I also would prefer to take things slowly.

Thank you for taking the time to read this, and I look forward to getting to know you!

If you have read through this, thank you! I know it is very long! 

I won’t respond to messages that just say hey and I don’t want any NSFW pics. If you would like to chat, message me about your favorite game. It can be a videogame, boardgame, card game or even sport. 

I’m also sorry if I take a while to get to your message. I limit how many people I talk to at a time because it gets overwhelming responding to so many messages all at once.