The title is precisely what I’m looking for. For as long as I can honestly remember, I've been drawn to BDSM— and my interests have darkened, developed further, as I’ve matured. Ideas have been with me since primary school; even at the age of six, I recall bondage scenarios that I wanted to make a reality.

In fact, as I get older and more mature, my understanding of how to balance what I'm looking for with a professional, vanilla, adult life is supporting me in my intentions to bring it to life.

It is now vital to say this: I always practice the respect of limits, as well as deeply giving aftercare. I am a huge supporter of it! However, those seeking a softly, softly approach, it is safe to say that I’m likely not the best fit. I wouldn’t necessarily call myself a Daddy Dom, Sensual Dom, or Pleasure Dom.

I want her to wake up soaked, so deeply turned on by the thoughts of what’s about to happen to her in her days. Wet at the thought of ’what will I do with her?’, ‘How will I bend her will to exactly what I want?’ And when it’s all done, show her such deep adoration and care.

I am looking for a submissive (female only, sorry) who is interested in exploring an incredibly strict and extremely dark D/s dynamic. A plethora of rules would be established— ranging from how nails are kept, what's worn, orgasm control, through to sleep schedules, where you’re allowed to go, what you’re allowed to eat, and bathroom control.

Kinks: Bondage, TPE, orgasm control, humiliation, degradation, blackmail, cnc, abduction play, kidnapping, possessiveness, fear play, ownership, anal, sadism, conditioning, plus a list of others beyond those included above.

Limits: Anything underage, scat, animals, incest.

There are 3-4 different ways in which true helplessness could be realised. They are legal yet genuinely a bit dark. I am more than happy to open-up about them in a chat; but will withhold them from here.

But who's on the other side of this potent power exchange? Well, please read on.

I'm a 34M (6'1 / 185cm), and by all intents and purposes is a young, athletic, bright and positive type that you'd see at work, at a bar, even within a volunteering group. I love to read, listen to podcasts, audiobooks, understand the world and its direction, play football and workout reguarly. And so, beneath all of the extroversion, professional drive, and care for the world is an unequivicoally dark, sadistic, controlling dominant presence.

Travelling and digital work means in-person is ultimately possible too, if things progress to that.

I'd love to hear from you if the above caught your eye, and got you thinking. Got you imagining of waking up completely helpless..

Best and darkest, Hugo