The year is slowly coming to an end and after I've had my most wonderful dynamics to date through this sub, I'm confident I can find what I need again: someone who appears assertive and strong on the outside, but turns to a submissive little girl when the curtains close. What I dream about is talking to someone I admire all day, rearrange her guts in the evening and wrap it up by holding her in my arms like the princess that she is.

Many men here look for bimbos and inexperienced subs. Many don't like brats because brats hurt their fragile little egos. I like my women like my childhood - challenging (sad music). I'm looking for someone intelligent, ambitious, accomplished and passionate. Your kinks shouldn't define you, but rather be the cherry on top.

Who are you getting I bed with though? I'm Chris, I'm 30 years old and I'm a psychologist. I'm 1.95, 80 kg, assertive, but very genuine and kind. I work as a psychologist and try to help clients escape their traumas and dark pasts (oh the irony that's about to follow). My kinks are degradation, humiliation, anal, impact play, breath play, CNC, bondage, psychological and fear play, figging, foot fetish and so many more. My limits are scat, anything illegal and subs who are immature and can't communicate.

I have been described as a gentle sadist. We will set up an image for you that we'll mold you after. Could be a good little girl, could be someone ambitious, could be a dumb fucking bimbo. We will set up rules for you how you can reach this goal. If you follow these rules, you'll be praised and rewarded. I actually enjoy giving rewards more than punishing, but punishment works better to shape behaviour, so 🤷🏼‍♀️

For as long as this post is up, I'm still looking, so feel free to send me a chat. I'll verify very early on and will expect you to do the same.

tl;dr: I don't want a bimbo, I want someone who inspires me.