Hello everyone! I hope you are all doing well:) I’d just like to say this post might be a bit long but hopefully it will be worth it to you and you’ll stick around til the end.
What I’m looking for
So I have always been the dominant, I’m a tall and strong guy, and throughout my life in kink I have always taken the control and lead. But for a little while now I have realised I have a submissive side, I don’t know how much and I really really want to explore it, whenever I think about it my mind races with the possibility. This is where I’m really hoping to find a kind and patient gentle Domme (or even better would be a switch) to take me as her own and help me experience a FLR or even a female led friendship to start with. Someone to really connect and create a genuine friendship with since I will need some trust in this. Someone to show me the fun of being submissive, basically I get a sweet teacher and you get a passionate and enthusiastic toy.
About me
So a little about me before we get onto the fun and kinky part, I’ll keep this short so we can get to know each other in conversation. I am a 25 year old guy from the UK, I love to travel and explore, but I also love staying in and playing video games, watching movies. I also really enjoy going to the gym and working on myself. I’ve been told I really have a golden retriever type of energy quite a lot.
Physically I am 6’4”, white, blonde hair, blue eyes, I have a few tattoos and plans to get more. I have a kind of bulky muscular build from the gym, so broad shoulders, big arms and a large chest, I’m not shredded with abs though, I go back and forth on whether I want to be. Happy to exchange pictures and verify once we have established a form of trust:)
Kinks interests and not
Okay now the fun part you’ve been waiting for. So even though I’m new to being submissive I still have a solid idea of what I am and am not into.
What I am interested in can be broken down into a couple of ideas. The first being, I’d love someone to worship and please, dedicating myself pleasuring and satisfying them as a service top. I’ve always been a pleaser, even as a dom I love seeing the woman I’m with just in pure bliss, making her cum over and over again, I’d love to experience that as a submissive, using my mouth, hands, body and toys to make her feel as good as she deserves l, worshipping every curve and part of her body. A Warrior/ knight to his queen.
- Being a service top to a power bottom
- Face sitting
- Body worship
- Ass eating
- Leash and collar
- Giving Toyplay
- Objectification/ Light degradation
The second idea is something I’ve really been needing, I’ve always been in control and taking care of the needs of my partner, I want to give up that control and be looked after by a sweet and gentle woman. I guess it goes down the lines of mommydom where I would love to experience praise and encouragement, to be nurtured and looked after sexually, giving up the lead to someone who wants to make sure my needs are met.
- Mommy type dom
- FLR
- Risky and breeding?
- Praise, dirty talk and encouragement
- Titty sucking
- Hand jobs
- Following your lead
- Edging/ orgasm control
- Huge fan of messy passionate sex too
So I’ll now go into what I’m NOT interested in, firstly and mainly I am a masculine guy and want to stay that way so no feminisation or sissification. I’m also not interested in pegging really (sorry I know this is a big one for most of you), humiliation, chastity or being caged and there are probably a few more.
For if you are a switch I am more than happy to tell you about my dominant self, but I’ll leave that out the post since it’s already very long and not the focus.
That’s it!
So that is my post, again I apologise for the length of it but I really hope that means if you made it this far you are really interested. So feel free to message me if you are, all I ask is you put some effort into your message, include the word Mango at the start of your message to show you read the post and stand out:) Please be 21 or older, the older the better really. Hope to hear from you:)
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