Hello Reddit,

I’m looking to connect with someone interested in exploring a unique BDSM dynamic focused on workaholism. This is an entirely non-sexual arrangement, although some teasing and sexual undertones are okay. If we build comfort and trust, there might be an opportunity to incorporate the one sexual kink I'm comfortable with - edging (this applies especially if you’re a woman, but that’s not a requirement).

About You: -  Gender: No preference, leaning towards women but open to all adults. -  Age: Must be an adult, no specific age range. - Location: Long distance or local, as this will be an online arrangement. - Work Ethic: I seek someone who thrives on being productive and bases their worth on their performance. Ideally, you should already have a strong will and need just a push to start. Brats or those needing heavy discipline aren’t a good fit for this dynamic. - Tasks: Be ready for strict demands. You’ll engage in workouts and work projects, including pulling all-nighters.

Dynamic Goals: This dynamic is ideal if you need a significant push to start over and become a better version of yourself from an outside perspective. The goal is to push your workaholism to a problematic extent, where your dedication to tasks consumes you. This will not be a comfortable experience, nor is it supposed to be enjoyable per se. It requires someone with resilience and a strong desire to excel. Think of it as a military-style approach – you either do well or fail.

Risks and Challenges: -  Burnout: You will be pushed to the edge of your capabilities, and burnout is a real risk. The intention is to see how far you can go, embracing the struggle and fatigue as part of the journey. - Health Impact:  Expect intense workloads and workouts, which may take a toll on your physical and mental health. This dynamic is not for the faint-hearted. - Sacrifices: Your personal time and comfort will be sacrificed in favor of productivity. Social life, hobbies, and leisure activities may be significantly reduced or eliminated. - Performance Pressure: You will be held to high standards with little room for failure. The pressure to perform will be intense and relentless.

These risks are not something to avoid but rather the core of what makes this dynamic challenging and transformative. The aim is to test your limits, push your boundaries, and see how far your resilience and dedication can take you. This is about embracing the difficulties and coming out stronger on the other side.

Sustainability: I recognize that this level of intensity is not sustainable in the long term. However, I’m hoping for at least a three-month period where you can fully immerse yourself in this dynamic and experience significant personal growth and transformation.

What I Expect: -  Check-ins: Consistent updates with videos and pictures to track your progress. Nothing sexual is expected. - Communication: Daily check-ins and communication are essential. - Motivation: Your motivation should come from within, not from external punishments. I will provide the structure, but you need to bring the will to excel and push yourself to your limits.

Communication: Some of my kinks include being straight up mean, degrading and demanding. I expect only soft and appreciative replies from you. Even if you hate me in the moment, you must respond with sickeningly sweet appreciation. Failure to do so will result in failing the dynamic.

Contact Details: If you’re interested and believe you can thrive in this kind of dynamic, please contact me via Reddit chat. In your message, include: - Your name, gender, and age. - Three main goals you have within the next three months. - Three things that scare you about this concept that you're willing to push through. - Your soft and hard limits.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

A