Hello, I hope you are having a a good day. Before I begin, I’d like to say that as you read I understand that I may not be for everyone and that’s ok, if I’m not what you want than I sincerely hope you find what your are looking for! Hopefully in the next post you read or make. If by the time you’ve made it to the bottom of this post and every cell in your body is screaming yes, finally! Then I’m thrilled. I take being being a Dom very serious, but we are all humans first so whether you choose me or don’t I hope you find what you want and all the things that you experience and go through have a happy resolution.

I am seeking a long term 24/7 sub/slave MLR relationship that would start online with the intent to make it in person some time in the future.

I have been interested in BDSM for 8 years and active on and off for 6 years. I have a pretty clear idea of what I want. I am ok with someone who does not have as much experience but I would like it if you’ve put a lot of thought into what you are looking for and what you the role you want.

What you can expect from me , is someone who wants respect your boundaries, who cares about the identity of the person beyond the submissive role. My goal is to create a safe space to explore. To me this means being the calm eye of our storm. Allowing you space and ways to communicate. Ensuring you’re comfortable and confident in the non vanilla lifestyle we choose. I want to be your number one fan. We have made a choice to have power exchange in our relationship but the base of this great pyramid will be a foundation of equally consenting adults. I don’t just want to be your Dom or Master I want to be your best friend. I view your choice to submit as a gift and honor. One that I fully intend to show appreciation for.

What I expect from you is dedication, loyalty and effort. I want someone who takes pride in the path they have chosen with me. Someone who dedicates herself to obedience, and focuses herself on me. Someone who can take accountability and challenge herself on her own to want to be better everyday for me. Submission is an active choice one you must make every second of every minute of everyday. I want someone who isn’t just loyal in their thoughts, in their actions but also in their submission. Submission to me isn’t always as black and white as “I say, you do” I want someone will observe and learn me and make decisions with a submissive mindset with the intent to please.

On the subject of kinks and Dom style mine are quite broad so I don’t intend to list them all here. I am a Hedonistic kinky Dom, I do have a soft side but also a sadistic side, often times blending together. I enjoy control, protocol, TPE, and humiliation. These are common roots to many of my other kinks and fetishes. If you are still here this is where I will mention that I am into some fairly extreme weird and odd things. So the fewer the limits the better. I want to experience and explore as many kinky ideas as possible and I’d love for you to be a part of that experience.

Things you may find as potential deal breakers are one sided open relationships/ cuckquean/ polygyny, some role reversal with me topping from the bottom (like I mentioned before I’m a hedonist too).

I am very big on both of us needing aftercare. So I want you to communicate what that looks like to you. For me it’s just knowing you’re ok and reaffirming your consent, my goal is not to be an abusive man, I realize BDSM especially to society that doesn’t understand it can have a negative view, your reassurance really means a lot to me. It’s important I know you are an enthusiastic volunteer and not an unwilling captive. This is especially important in a 24/7 intense dynamic.

If you managed to read this far and are undeterred send me a chat request with your name or a name you’re comfortable with telling me and age. Tell me what stood out to you, or what if any concerns you have. Also tell me any hard limits you may have as well as kinks you really need to feel satisfied in a relationship/dynamic.

I forgot to mention this while I do not have a “type” I do believe physical attraction is important. So if we start to connect I’d love to exchange pictures fairly early on. I want to do so in a way that makes you feel comfortable so I will never pressure you for it but I do think it’s important.