Hello and welcome to my post, I'm looking for a long term relationship, and hopefully a lifetime partner. Online at first but I'd love to meet you when the time is right.
I'm 25 years old and French. I have a masculine look, light skin, brown eyes and dark hair. I have a muscular build and I'm 175cm tall and weigh 70kg. I'll gladly show SFW pictures of me in private as long as you do it too! Speaking of which, on that note, I'm not really a fan of catfish...
I am a very cautious and introverted person. I don't like to force things unless I have 100% confidence in myself. I usually wait, take my time to observe, check and double check again and finally commit fully or not. So don't expect me to open up completely and trust you right away, it will take time. When it does happen, I will be a very curious and playful person, I like to tease, try new things and I can be quite stubborn sometimes when I don't get the results I want. I am generally sweet but I can be very mischievous and it would be really fun if you were too, but I am respectful and admit it when I am caught red-handed. My hobbies are sports, reading, gaming and music (especially metal and hard/alt rock). I studied computer science for 4 years and I am currently working in the army, in a combat unit. I sleep in a room with four other fellow soldiers and roommates, it's really fun but unfortunately I have very little privacy.
NSFW I'm really kinky and sexual, not in the sense of doing it all day, but it's an infallible part of me and I really enjoy teasing and flirting about it. So am I a Dom or a submissive? .... It's a bit weird to explain, but although I'm a switch, I don't consider myself one. I don't really like switching. I like hierarchy because the boundaries, benefits and duties are clear and known, you know what to expect and what you're supposed to do. I'm not so extreme as to ask for an explicit contract with a signature, but being able to talk about it explicitly and freely is a must, I want a long-lasting relationship and being able to discuss it as an equal, of your own free will without any constraints is the first step to achieve that. As you've probably guessed, I'm not only looking to keep d/sonly looking to keep d/s only in the bedroom but also in everyday life, to a lesser extent. I'm not aiming for a full TPE relationship but that could be the end goal (and I would probably love it). Whether you are a Domme or a submissive, prove yourself. I could not be a submissive to someone who is "below" me. And the same goes for owning a submissive who enjoys pushing boundaries but doesn't know when to stop or listen.
I enjoy bondage, physical restraints and sensory deprivation. Frustration is extremely fun and a great training tool, so denial, edging and probably chastity are a must! Sexual humiliation, making the sub swallow sexual fluids and being treated as a pet, not a real animal (while the tail plug, leash and barking are great fun) but a sentient toy. A precious toy that you must cherish and take care of, but a toy nonetheless. To use and abuse as you please, for your own pleasure. The duality of having to take care of it, but also the pleasure of owning and tormenting your thing just for your amusement. Iβm more of a sadist than a masochist but pain is clearly not a limit and well used itβs really fun. And another great training tool !
I hope this has given you a clear idea of who I am or at least a glimpse. Now it's time to talk about you who have read this far.
Physically, I'm sorry but I'm not into bbw, I won't be attracted to you. Otherwise, I admit that I have a thing for petite figures, blue eyes and red hair, but those are just bonuses. And another plus if you play sports (or are willing to).
Now that we're done with the superficial stuff, let's get down to business! I'm looking for someone who knows how to be independent, able to take care of themselves and work. Being an introvert yourself is a plus, and you have to be kinky and playful. It may sound childish, but at the end of the day, the main goal of a relationship is to have a good time and for me, that involves games and sex! Even if one enjoys "a little" more orgasms than the other...
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