Hi! Nice to meet all of you. As the title says above I am looking for my eventual forever sub. I am an experienced dom who has been lucky enough to date and have dynamics with kinky women in the past but sadly nothing worked out long term, and I am now looking for to find someone who is looking for the same thing. I know this doesn’t happen easily and I also value connection also as I have met many fake subs on here who have left me with bad experiences.

Vanilla me: I am employed, fit, wasian, 5'7", very nerdy, religious, and family oriented. I love basically all things sci-fi, especially model kits, drawing/painting, and I like working out too to destress after a long day. I like the the idea of marrying my future sub too, and would ideally like a woman that is into the same! I value a healthy mix of both wholesome and kinky things in life. I want someone who I can laugh with, flirt with, go on wholesome dates with, and send posts to on insta too lol.

Kinky me: I find that dominance comes very natural to me. I've always been put into leadership positions even when I'm not usually seeking them. I like a mix of both vanilla and kink oriented things, both inside and outside the bedroom, and I've been described as a vocal/softdom by those I've been with before. My main kinks are: bondage, anal/oral training, some petplay (collars, tailplugs/ears, etc), overstim play, edgind/denial play, picking outfits for my sub for play (especially latex, corsets, lingerie, etc.), and ESPECIALLY aftercare/cuddling too. I'm also curious to try remote toys since those seem fun. (I might also like receiving praise but I never told you this).

If I sound like your type of dom id love to hear from you! I know first messages can be daunting, especially for subs, so even if you just say "hi" I’ll reach back to you lol. If you've made it this far gold star to you, and enjoy your day :)