Good evening,

I’m looking for someone I can’t wait to hear from every day, someone whose energy and spirit excite me, who also wants to become helplessly obsessed with and devoted to me. I am deeply sweet and caring, but also a bit of a sadist. I love control and I love the psychological elements of D/s. I’m a PhD student— do you think you’ll be clever enough to resist?

I’m an alternative, lightly gothy woman that is heavily tattooed. I’m big in every sense of the word: I’m 6’0 tall and fat, with a body similar to those Iron Age fertility idols. I actually have a Venus of Willendorf pendant on a necklace that I wear frequently. I love horror movies, exploring nature, odd tourist spots à la Atlas Obscura, and video games. I’m married and polyamorous, but I have a lot of love and energy to give.

What I’m looking for is a close relationship based on trust and connection, where I am the domme and you are the submissive. I want to get to know each other and develop mutual trust and interest before you submit to me— it only makes it that much more delicious.

My kinks include chastity, orgasm control, humiliation/degradation, impact, free use, etc. My limits are age play, scat, and anything dangerous. I can be harsh but also loving— I want to use and abuse you and then cuddle and sweet-talk you after. And like I said, I’m in it for the psychological: I want to occupy your waking moments. Be surprised at how much you’d debase yourself for me.

I’m looking for someone in the age range of 25 to 35 who would be willing to visit in-person occasionally at some point down the road (online to start.) I’m in the Deep South, so if you’re willing to travel a little, that would be great. I’m attracted to people who are smart, ambitious, and mature. All body types are welcome, but big boys with dad bods and tattoos are a weakness of mine. I also welcome other LGBT folks.

Please, in your message, reciprocate the effort I’ve put forward here. Maybe include your favorite Halloween candy as a secret sign too 🍬