Hi! I hope you are doing well. I'll keep this relatively brief. I'm 23 and I'm from Texas. I'm about 6 feet tall, skinny, and I'm looking for someone genuine for a long-term D/s dynamic.
I'm not that experienced as I have never really found someone I truly feel comfortable submitting to. However, I am happy and eager to learn if you are willing to help, or we could learn/ grow together if you are inexperienced like me.
I'm a hopeless romantic at heart and very much care about the non-sexual aspects of the relationship as well. I like spending quality time together, doing activities (like listening to music, watching tv, playing video games, or just keeping each other company while we read books), or just calling and talking about our days. That is not to say that I'm looking for something predominantly vanilla as I expect the overall dynamic to be a FLR and kink-related stuff mixed in, but just that I don't want it to be just about kink either. I believe that to really be able to submit, that emotional bond/ connection is very important. I'd like for you to be open and honest in your communication as that is very important to me. Also, I don't like to share, so I want to be your one and only ;)
I'm looking for someone who either knows what they want, or are willing to spend the time and effort to find out. I'm saying this because all too often I have seen "Dommes" who expect me to lead for the most part and only take over when it is convenient. Ideally, I would like for you to be under 30 and very much emotionally available. My limits are anything unhygienic like scat, anything involving permanent harm or scarring of any kind, overt public play, and some others that I will mention as I learn about about different kinks. As for kinks, I am either into or open to trying most things. I'd like for you to set the pace there and I am happy to follow your lead. Say the name of a fruit if you read this.
Overall, I'll be there for you just like I expect you to be there for me. I understand that we have busy lives and if sometimes that gets in the way, that is alright so long as it is communicated, since I don't want either of us to be left hanging. I very much have golden-retriever energy I would say, though whether that is a good thing or bad only time will tell. Tell me about yourself, what you're looking for, and anything in particular that drew you to my post. Looking forward to hearing from you!
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