Hallo to anyone that stumbles upon my little post \o

Now where to begin. Well I’m hoping to find a person who is interested in a chill FWB situation where we actually can talk to each other throughout the day and hangout places when time permits. I've done this in the past and a lot of people seem to forget the friend part of friends with benefit. The amount of times conversations have gotten sexual within the first hour or people immediately messaging hey baby with a winky face is just exhausting. If I were looking to jump straight into the sex I'd be elsewhere. Surely there is someone out there who can understand that sex is so much more enjoyable when you've got some form of a bond with that person which leads into my next talking point.

I am looking for someone with similar interests so we can have things to talk about. Some of my interests are: food, music, video games, anime, animals, cooking, and reading

I’m black, working a regular full time job, finishing up a degree in cybersecurity, and a pretty laid back person. I’m located in the Northwestern area of Connecticut but don't let that dissuade you from reaching out if you're in a different area of the state. Always open to trying new things as I am into kinks and whatnot dom leaning but if kinks aren't your thing and you just want good sex then that's cool too.

Please be within my age range, single, and confirm that you’re willing to talk for a bit before getting super sexual. Flirting here and there is okay. I'm a short guy who is 5'4 and on the lean side, it's unfortunate but nothing I can do about it so please either be around my height or willing to accept being somewhat taller than me. Also be down to meet in a public area for lunch somewhere before deciding to meet for the first time at some random place alone. That covers safety for both of us.

Make sure to tell me about yourself and your interest/hobbies. I have no preference who I'm attracted to so long as you're taking care of yourself. Bonus points for SFW pics. I will try my best to respond to respond to each message I get but if it's just hey or hi and extremely low effort I won't even accept the chats. If you are also not within Connecticut your message will be disregarded too. Anyone that does not meet these requirements, please don’t bother sliding into the DMs to shoot your shot.

Hope everyone finds what they’re looking for :)