If I crave something from relationships of any kind, it is intimacy. And the pure unbridled intimacy of a d/s dynamic is not like anything else I've experienced. For someone to submit to me- to expose themselves so completely to me both physically and mentally- it is as wholesome as it is erotic. And I never take the act of submission for granted.
I'm not interested in seeing someone only as a sub. I want a friend. I want someone I can laugh with and care about. To me, that connection makes a dynamic much more fulfilling and intimate (there's that word again).
My desire to dom has no root in misogyny. My politics are very progressive. I only want to control your body within a dynamic and no other way. I realize this may sound strange to bring up, but I have absolutely zero attraction to those with socially regressive beliefs. So I figure it best to save time and awkwardness by making that perfectly clear.
I'm a gentle dom by nature. I have dad energy, dad bod, and dad jokes. (You can verify all those in my post history.) I genuinely want to provide care and guidance and peace. And within a dynamic, I want my sub to feel safe at all times. That's the most important thing to me in any session or task. So I value communication and feedback. And I ask plenty of questions (sexual and not) because that's just who I am. I'm curious and try my best to understand where you're coming from and how you're feeling.
I'm single and open to possibilities. I'm not looking to jump into anything or force it. But I am looking for sincerity and fun. And intimacy.
How about you?
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